I collect four leaf clovers, the same is said about them. If you find one by accident it will bring you more luck,, But if you give it away it will bring you both good luck.
I found a five leaf clover, and it is said that if you keep it it will bring bad luck,, won money the day I found it. But I kept it.
I say it is just a state of mind.. If it really bothers you, and you think it will bring bad luck, I would say give it to your friend and you both win...
Nothing I have ever read has indicated that it matters where the plant came from.
They are considered lucky by the Chinese culture..
In this case I say go with your feelings and be happy with your choice that will bring you luck..
Good luck to you.
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