sorry if you don't like my English
why do you ask this question?
Have you tried to live fully?
Do you know what is to live fully?
i.e. wihout conflict, and get rid of any kind of fear?
Can you do that? No, you can't.
Do you know why you don't want to die?
is that because you don't know what is the world after death?
You may hear about heavens and hell, and reincarnation and all the stuff.
But apparently you don't want to believe anything right?
So how to die with the past?
Isn' that the most important questions?
So past is always limited, and future is just modification of the past?
So have you try to live in the now?
But you can't, since you have so many past,
If you know how to live in the past, you are not alive, in terms of all the "past, present, future" and not die
You die in the past second and live again.
So it is a constant movement
And if you really know that, you are not die, and not alive( continuation)
and in the now, there is no time, thus there is no self
參考: Krishnamurti: First and Last Freedom
吃喝玩樂又一天,咁你有天會找到人生意義,使乜煩呀你
2008-10-11 14:20:49 補充:
不過最緊要找錢有得使先好
2008-10-11 14:20:58 補充:
yes?
Chowsingsing仲咩咁灰呀?因咩事唔想生存先?睇你都大把野未做過又未試過,仲咩灰矖ga?
咩都唔想做咪瞓下覺先lor,不過做人始終都要醒.唔可以永遠逃避問題.要面對現實.
我唔知你咩事,所以唔知點比意見你應該點做.不過年輕人看看自己有什麼目標,忘記背後,努力面前,看著標竿直跑啦!生命好有意義ga!
我同意樓上有一個朋友的說法:你生存緊
生與死不是由你自己決定得到的,是一個自然現象。譬如說有一個人養了一支雞,一般每天生一只蛋,他偏要雞每天生十個蛋,他做得到嗎?
如果你學人禁食或減肥,你可以幾餐不食野?到個時你就知你是想生定係想死.
肚子餓吃東西是人的本能,大致四小時就應補充能源,人的細胞分分鐘都在化和分解,這是活著的人不可抗拒的本能。
想不想死是由人的內分泌系統決定的。人有幾種內分泌器官如甲狀腺,腎上腺皮質,卵巢素,等,他們由腦下垂體領導,通過大腦決定生與死。
唔想死是好的積極人生,進一步想一想怎樣可以活出真我,活出快樂人生,就是正確。把那個唔想生存的想法唔要,就應該這樣做。
希望幫到你!
參考: 我
很簡單, 這裡有兩個topic,一個係唔想死, 一個係唔想生存.
好,第一步, 寫下你為何唔想死,例如, 怕痛, 驚失去親人, 驚落地獄等.
第二步, 寫下你為何唔想生存, 例如, 痛到想死, 已經失去親人, 想上天堂等.
第三步, 睇下呢d原因係咪可以解決, 例如, 怕痛,咪搵d冇咁痛概死法. 痛到想死, 咪睇下有冇方法冇咁痛.
如是者你應該會分析到, 原來有很多事情是可以解決到的,根本就不用去想死又唔想死之間浪費時間.
最重要係, 死你未試過, 你點知死左會點, 應該會仲慘過你宜家.
生存你就試緊, 起碼都知少少啦. 點都有得評估風險掛.
舉個例子, 有d人比女朋友飛,唔想死又唔想生存,咁咪,
唔想生存 - 比女飛好慘 - 出面大把女即刻搵過個女朋友, 又可以搵下朋友陪. 正. = 繼續生存
唔想死 - 怕痛, 怕下面冇女陪 - 唔死咪唔怕痛, 出面大把女,死左下面冇女咪大獲. = 唔死
你既然將問題放在哲學, 本身就不想死,
老兄, 這樣吧, 你應修行到 ~~ 忘我境界,
為社會, 國家置生死於度外. 生時受人尊崇, 死後留芳百世.
生即是死, 死即是生也.
- 植物人: 又唔似生又唔似死,療養院就住有很多植物人,香港快餐文化日盛,患心藏血管病越來越多,植物人就越來越多,不過做植物人也無寧日,先前就有"舂坎角療養院"虐待事件.
- 宗教有很深的探討"生與死".
2008-10-10 03:12:16 補充:
- 車禍、意外、跳樓、自剎、手術失敗或失誤...都會成"植物人--全身癱瘓".
你信我好d,你去2/f~3/f jump下去多數係直會死又唔係,生又唔係!
^.^
閣下可以通過思考,尋找生存或者死亡的有力依據。從而解決你心中的疑慮。
參考: me
正在閣下兩者都唔想的時候,
你現階段係生存緊,
在閣下等緊人問答的時候,
你現階段係生存緊,
即係話妳一直都做緊你唔想做ge野,
但係又唔知想做咩野,
倒不如先找尋自己想做咩野.