生活/生命之中一般的矛盾會係?

矛盾係

想有多D零用但吾想比亞爸亞媽話
吾想上堂交功課讀書但係要返學升班
吾想返工但係冇錢
吾想做野但係冇錢
想男朋友係有錢，靚仔，但冇臉見鏡
想女朋友係有錢，靚女，養埋自己，但吾想比人話食軟飯
想自己多D時間做自己野又想有男/女朋友陪
想賺多D錢，等屋企人生活好，但係冇時間比屋企人
想好多人幫自己，但吾想幫人
想股票次次都低入高出，但吾想知係乜
想吾使死，但怕老左吾知點算

愛情最矛盾.明明心愛既..口就說不愛...
仲有時因為錢而吵..
錢是最大矛盾.可以help人..都可以害人.....
人生矛盾多的是...所有問題都有矛盾...
不過...好睇你個人點唸通,想冇矛盾就唔好做人搖擺不定

the only conflict I can think of is

the conflict between what you are, and what you think you should be

there is no other conflict if you really understand

gap between what you are and what you should be, you will be, you have been

that is conflict

I am greedy, I shouldn't be greedy, because greedy is not good, I have to get rid of it

Greedy. not greedy, all dualistic movement

I am stupid, but I shouldn't be stupid, and I have to be more clever, so I read books, I go to church, I study PHD...

what should be, and what is

I am sad, ugly, and I should not be like that.

What should, and what is

I am poor, and I should not be poor, I have to be very rich.

I have some many thoughts, and I should be quiets, so I go to meditate, pray, get a drink, have sex with others to forget myself.

What should be, and what is...

Is that what normal people's pattern, the whole pattern is, get rid of pain, and seeking pleasure, and I divide myself that pleasure is good, and pain is too bad, sso i make myself very dull, very insensitive, since a sensitive person may be more painful than others.

Patttern, pattern, and pattern...

一般人會有的矛盾就是明知故犯!

當你覺得你必須努力工作的時侯,你就十分容易放鬆自己,讓原本要用五分鐘的事情,你就要十分鐘才能做完!

又例如你知道做人要誠實的時侯,你往往又會在某些時侯說謊!你知道做人應該腳踏實地賺錢,但你往往有時侯又會走捷徑賺錢!人知道一些犯法的事情時,雖然人是知道,但是人又會有時侯就做了這些犯法的事!

矛盾,看字面的意思來解,就是指某人的想法或者行為不合乎常理,即所做的與所應該做的完全不合乎,互相對比!一般人的矛盾實在太多,十分容易使所做的事情與應該做的事情搞不清,而做了不應該做的事情!你自己慢慢發現吧!

我諗矛盾就是因為我地擁有智慧.
但所擁有的智慧卻不足以控制所有.原因所謂的智慧只是一些主觀的想法~及在這個世界所學的的知識而已

時間係最公平，有錢、冇錢、男、女、老、幼，大家都每天只得二十四小時，冇人可以多一些或少一些。
但有權勢的人就想比別人多一些時間，最好有【長生不老藥】《秦始皇》。
窮人就渡日如年，欠人錢就最想時間停頓不用給人追數。
生活 / 生命之中都不能離開【$】，矛盾矛盾矛盾！

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According to William Shakespeare, "To be, or not to be; tis' the question."

for example, 我嘅矛盾係當Y狗係狗定係外太空生物
呢個矛盾我每日都要反覆思考
人生真係矛盾