我應不應該離婚, 請各位給我一些意見, 謝謝!

I am 24 yrs
I grow up in a single family since I was 3.
And I got married when I was 21(I am still married).
As a child who grew up in a single family. My father always beats my mom, and always makes her cry. Everytime I saw her cry, I could feel how heart broken she was. I was always soo scared, I never want him to come home, I never want to see him. I was 3. I really dont mind that my mom dovice him, I really dont mind that I have no father. Because I think that me and my mom's life will be happier. (My father never gives money to my mom, but instead, he always takes money from her) My mom, she has one full time job and 5 parttime jobs, she worked soo hard to raise me and my brother. Of course, she doesnt has time to be with me. However, it makes me very independence and tough.

As a wife: I cant answer you, because I dont understand why you said that you both 沒有感情, 甚至很討厭和他在一起, you cant communicate with him? then why you would marry him? or you both did love each other, you both could communicate, but after 11 years, everything gone?

Anyway, if you said that you only care about your child, then talk to him. He might be mature enough to understand, I dont think that he would like to see you unhappy. He has right to know.

Also, I think you should think about if you leave your husband, could you raise your child? or you would like my mom, need to work non stop and no time to be with your child.

你好呀！首先問問自已，有無經濟能力先，幾歲呀你！係未好細。不過都是小問題。現在你愛你老公嗎？還是不愛呢？先講你還想保留尼個家。
1) 結婚有11年：當然無咁多話題正常架拉！你要想辦法搵話題和有共同興趣先有話題。定期搞一D親子、朋友活動例如：燒野食、大食會、一家去旅行。如果你老公話唔得嫻唔緊要再約，用成意。
你話對方同你無話題，不如你問問自已有無比機會大家溝通呢？尼個問題最緊要。

2) 你老公從來不會關心你 ：咁你有無關心你老公呢？？咁你先行一步關心你老公先，請用真情關心你老公，你老公會感受到。


3) 他從來不給家用，賣屋也是一人一半：點解會唔比錢家用呀！！有無陳經比過家用，如果以前有比開而家唔比錢家用，係未佢經濟無以前好，又或者你本身好有錢，睇低你老公呀？


4) 現在的顧慮只是兒子, 怕離婚給他帶來不好的影響, 也怕得不到兒子的撫養權：咁一定拉！你心中以有答案。


5) 應為自己未來的幸福和他離婚：你好任性，10前你應該諗清楚拉！大家能夠一齊11年唔容易事。

6) 還是為了兒子有一個完整的家庭：正常係咁諗。我是過來人我之前和前夫情況同你差不多，只是無BB。我不咁現在，識左條仔，剛剛離婚。有兒子就唔應該咁諗。

我同你一樣，好想離婚又怕害到小朋友，你小朋友都１０ｙｒ，我個ｄ得，８ｙｒ及５ｙｒ，都唔知可以點呀！

依我看，　你倆只是不懂溝通，　
沒了共同話題，
罪不至要離婚，
他無給你家用，　
但你是否不需要為家中的錢煩惱嗎？
如果是，　他仍是好丈夫，
你應好好準備兩方面：
１）　自己多同你丈夫分享你的兒子的事，
讓他多參與．
２）　你應找工作好好儲下錢．

祝你婚姻幸福！

我覺得你應打電話給麥sir,他可能中肯一些,他的節目是香港電台第二台,晚上9點至12点,電話是1872388,好似是,因為我只是聽節目的

應該等你的兒子長大後,才決定吧!因為如果你現在離婚,你的兒子會很傷心的,你見他這樣,你自已也不忍心

雖然我仲好細個,
仲未可以體驗li種心情,
但係我可以以一個小朋友既立場睇li件事,
其實我爸爸媽媽關係都好差,
有陣時候仲會嗌交,
每次都嗌到話要離婚,
每次佢地嗌交我就會好唔開心,
我仲會喊,
我媽媽成日唔番屋企,
亦都唔多理我,
所以我好唔中意佢,
但係點都好,
我真係唔敢想像過單親生活,
我識D朋友,
佢地係單親既,
每一位都同我講::
我好唔中意我屋企
我可以係佢地既言語之間感受得到冇左爸爸/媽媽既寂寞,傷害......