how do I make my son break up with his girlfriend she's biracial and he's white?

You don't. How dare you judge people. All white people are not good and normal. Your son likes what he likes and you just have to deal with it. If you try to break them up then it will make him more determined to get the blackest girl he can find. What you hate more will end up in your family. I can't believe you even posted this question you racist peice of $#!+

It's not your place or your choice to decide whom your son dates.

The fact that the girl is biracial is not her choice. The fact that she does not have a father in her life is not her choice. The fat that she has a mother who obviously cares for her that she lives with is wonderful.

I admire your son for not listening to his rude and prejudiced mother.

First of all....just because she is biracial does not make her not worthy enough to date your son. That's quite judgment of you to make this comment of her and you should actually follow your son because he seems open-minded and non judgmental of others' races. You need to accept that present day is full of mixed couples and your son is one. I think that you should take a deep look at yourself for a while because your question is totally unacceptably, close-minded and that's probably why she is rude to you. By the way, you are not thinking about your son. He is obviously happy with her and the more you keeping making these comments to him is only going to make him want to be around her more. You should just sit down with him and ask him what made him want to date her.

the biracial part shouldnt have anything to do with it. so what if she is another race. if he likes her, so be it. and just because she is from a broken family doesnt mean she cant live a "normal" life. there are plenty of familys who look to be this "normal" that you have in mind and be nothing more then a messed up child or adult in the future.. let your son be happy, and if its a mistake, let him learn from it. quit being a racist mother, and get in reality with the world. this "normal" your speaking of is nothing but the past. its a whole new ball game out there...

First, the more you try to tell your son not to do something, the more he will want to do it.
I have been dating my bf for fouryears. My parents didn't like him at first but i kept dating him and now we all get along. It will work out.
Maybe his gf is rude because she knows you look down on her, and want your son to break up with her.
Try having an open mind and be accepting. Just because she is biracial doesnt mean she isnt good for him. Racism is not a good thing to practice.

i understand your concerns, and sadly when you ask a question suggesting anything racial these days youre gonna get bashed(literally), but out of motherly love, you asked anyway, thats good.

you stated biracial, i dont think youre rude as many have accused you, since you arent name calling or anything.

but what you do need to realise is that its his life, not yours, whether you accept it or not, and whatever girl he choose, say in some future, when he takes a wife, its their life, you wontt really quite be there in the picture, except youve been nice and they enjoy visiting you often.

may i suggest that you instead of trying to manipulate things to your own likings, pray the best for your son and whatever it is, resign to god's will.

of course, a mother can guide her son to the best possible that there is for him, but what if the best for your son isnt the same thing as the best for you?

Pray for his happiness and pray for his goods, pray that he doesnt get used/manipulated by anyone, etc...

when things are wrong, say so as a 'fact', ex, it would be nice/sweeter if...blahblahblah..., more effective than condamning, and you know, not everyone is lucky enough to have both parents these days, and its quite cruel to sneer at someone because (s)he lost a leg or has only one parent, wouldnt you think?

Just because she is biracial and has no father doesn't make her a bad person. Your son deserves whom ever he wants not who you want him to be with. I think you need to accept his decisions or when he moves out is gonna not tell you as much info about his life as possible.Instead of trying to break up him and his girlfriend you need to realize that you are breaking up your relationship with him. And if your being rude to her maybe thats why she is being rude to you.

So,enable me get this precise, in the journey that your son brings residing house a impolite, undesirable white woman, each thing would be peachy? How do you define no longer wide-spread? "a million/2 African or something" you do no longer additionally be attentive to what race she is,precise? seems such as you're predjudiced against every physique who isn't white or rich.

You racist b*tch. I'm biracial.. you're saying were not good enough for you? You need to quit being so prejudice and if they love each other they're gonna stay together. Get over it. I can't wait til Obama wins so that'll piss you off more that a biracial president is in office.

I'm sorry, Ma'am, but there is no such thing as a white girl from a normal family now. I'm Irish, and my cousins are Hispanic and Black and Native American. There is just no such thing. Everyone's parents are getting divorced, people are allergic to dogs, and Obama is running for president.

Anyway, forcing the issue won't do anything with your adult son. Rude is the way of life, nowadays. You need to know how to be rude to get anywhere, but also how to be sweet. She can be both, but I think you made it obvious that you don't like her.