他是否知道我中意他

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[匿名]

2008-09-25 8:09 pm

我暗戀了一個男同事已2年多了,平時我們好少見,因我同他不同工作,而且和他都不熟,只是有時工作需要傾2句,但我常常見到他就會很不自然,不知他有否察覺到.
但上星期他同其他同事說他快要辭職了,我十分傷心,於是在果日放工後打了電話給他,問你搵到第二份嗎,你為何走等,但他好像很驚似的,成日話冇呀....好似唔想講咁.
死啦,我同佢三唔識七,我不嬲未試過係工作以外時間打電話畀佢,就算以前打都係交低工作有關的事
我想問佢係咪已經知我中意他
很煩!
謝謝回答!

更新1:

他是否會諗點解我會打畀佢?

回答 (5)

Bryan

2008-09-25 8:18 pm

✔ 最佳答案

其實佢呢個反應都唔代表佢知道你中意咗佢, 始終呢個話題(辭職與否)都唔係咁多男人喜歡同人講, 加上你地又咁少傾計, 無啦啦問佢d咁野, 佢有咁反應都唔出奇

就算佢知道咗你心意, 你又煩d咩呢? 莫非你一世都唔諗住俾佢知? 否則, 即使向佢表態都唔係壞事啊, 若果佢真係轉工, 可能連向佢講嘅機會都無

最基本問題, 要返到去"你鍾意佢d咩?" 你深入了解佢未ga? 佢有無女朋友? 有時候好感 & 鍾意真係好難分, 但你要問清楚自己, 如果唔係都會幾痛苦

唔好自己收埋收埋諗咁多野, 大膽d同佢認識多d, 盡量爭取多d相處, 一齊玩嘅機會, 識佢深入d先再諗其他野啦

Good luck! ^^

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小輝輝

2008-09-26 9:43 am

我諗最重要既一點係妳要立即彩取行動
唔好俾社會既態度縛死妳自己而錯失良機
如果唔係後悔只有妳自己

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dada

2008-09-26 3:00 am

其實你都唔駛諗太多，個電話唔打都打咗咯！

不過你打果個電話又真係衝動咗ｄ，你應該組織一下自己要講ｄ乜，你都知你哋又唔係咁熟，謬謬然咁打俾佢，佢都唔知你在哪裡聽返嚟，可能佢都未辭職，但流言已出咗嚟，唔驚就假呀！

事到如今，你應該同佢解釋下你打俾佢嘅用意，釋除佢嘅憂慮，相信佢單憑你哩個電話都未知你鍾意佢嘅．

不過，你都要把握時間，若果佢真係辭職，你就無機會表白了，現在你都唔會咁大胆直接同佢講吧！所以你同佢解釋時，應該要留一線，等第日佢真係走咗，你都有藉口再揾佢吖嘛！！

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mel@Fian

2008-09-26 1:29 am

我想問佢係咪已經知我中意他?
未必;可能佢真係有原因同你又吾熟,所以表現先咁奇怪;吾答你好正常!~

題外話:
咁你怕吾怕比佢知;你要先問問自己...

你係咪鍾意佢答案吾重要,最緊要你吾認,打比佢可以好多理由同籍口...你可以話自己八掛...又話係替人問....我都試過追男仔;假如被識穿吾識佢都奈你吾何...係咪...嘻嘻!

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[匿名]

2008-09-25 10:37 pm

You rarely talked to him before, and once you found out he resigned from his position, you asked so many personal questions.
Even if he does like you, you have to give him signals. Guys are not as sensitive as gals. I think the best is to ask him for a contact number or email address to keep in touch and know each other better first.

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