我要怎麼分辨這外國人是否真心?

2008-09-02 2:48 am
我們在icq上認識 到msn聊很久 我好喜歡他的幽默 他說等他去香港時會來台灣找我 幾天後他說他想和我視訊sex 我馬上把他封鎖+刪除 後來他寄E-mail給我
hey vivi darling
why did u delete me
i m very seriously to meet u when i come to hk
pls send me a message
我回
i really feel afraid of all thing
sex
maybe i will let u disappointment
maybe i will really like u but u just want sex with me
sorry........
maybe i am not really good that what u think about

to try once is useful
i liked u as i said
dont delete me we can talk long
albert

i think we are really different
westem is really opening but my social is really closed
u can like everyone
maybe ur like can not be love
can u understand?
you are really nice,so i am really afraid that i will not only like u but also love u in the future one day
really sorry about that

wiwi i really liked u why dont add me again we can discuss all in msn not so by email
i really liked u and i would want to be with u partner about all not only sex
ok
add me again

之後我+回他MSN 我和他說我們真的不一樣 我說他可以喜歡很多人sex和任何看對眼的人 他說 在他們國家sex只是滿足人類需求沒有任何愛 我說我只和我喜歡的人 這話題我們討論了2天
最後我告述他我是處女 我才剛滿18歲 他說這都不是問題 他要我先接受他 他是個建築師 住在德國 他常告述我他喜歡我 他說他部會強求我和他sex 只要我想再告述他 他但希望我可以答應當他女朋友 和他面對面談話 他說他希望我在瘦5公斤 不要和任何男生聊天 不要和他們sex

但我不太懂這些話
這是剛剛我們聊的
w說:
will u make with me partnership?
vivi 說:
partnership?
w 說:
yes
w 說:
u and me
vivi 說:
friend?
w 說:
like husband and wife
vivi 說:
but not in the msn?
or in the msn?
w 說:
first in msn then in reality
warrior of truth love 說:
deal?
vivi 說:
i will think aboutit until u really only love or like me
w說:
yes
w 說:
i will i like u anymore
u like me too?
vivi 說:
if i get more 20 kg?
u like me too?
w 說:
u dont get more care urself
vivi 說:
i am asking u if i get more 20kgs u still like me?
更新1:

w 說: maybe i dont like it when u got 20 will u like urself then? vivi 說: i will got 58 w 說: ok will u buy webcam in next days vivi 說 notebook maybe w 說: when? vivi 說: i do not know

更新2:

w 說: did u make love with me by webcams w 說: will u? vivi 說: no w 說: think about it ok? vivi 說: ok w說: its exciting we can be here husband and wife vivi 說: i do not want a husbsnd in msn

更新3:

w 說: if i love u i will come to u we must do all first here in msn ok? deal? vivi 說: i am thinking w說: ok accept me ur man?then its easy vivi 說: i do not want my man just in msn warrior of truth love 說: ok?

更新4:

warrior of truth love 說: u know i m so far from u warrior of truth love 說: we must do all here first vivi 說: or maybe we sex in msn then u do not love me w 說: no i want u here first vivi 說: u say that { warrior of truth love 說: if i love u i will come to u}

更新5:

vivi 說: if not? vivi 說: i will never see u ? w 說: it depends on u u will see me here in webcam vivi 說: but when i need a hug when i am sad who can give me a hug? vivi 說: maybe we are not suitable right?

更新6:

w說 i can tell u i hugg u now then u can feel me i will hugg u if we meet will u accept all? warrior of truth love 剛剛傳送來電震動。 vivi 說: sex in msn? vivi 說: maybe no

更新7:

w 說: i meant will u accept my gf here first vivi 說: be ur gf here first ? w 說: yes vivi 說: ok vivi 說: maybe i can try it w 說: but dont shy for sex sometims warrior of truth love 說: u can be used slowly with webcam if u accept to be my gf ok?

更新8:

vivi 說: if i be ur gf then i need to sex in msn? w 說: maybe yes vivi 說: oh i think i can not be ur gf vivi 說: i do not think i can do that warrior of truth love 說: think about it warrior of truth love 說: its easy if u like me and accept to be my gf

更新9:

vivi 說: i like u vivi 說: but......... vivi 說: i afaid everything w說: be used to do it first we can talk face to face vivi 說: i can accept it face to face talk w說: ok

更新10:

w 說: if u accept to be my gf here u dont be shy ok? vivi 說: i will try but i can not do it soon w說: ok i didnt tell u soon with the time Darling i need to go make breakfast in a cafe wa 說: see u later vivi 說: ok

更新11:

到底他對我是什麼感覺? 我真的不知道該不該繼續喜歡他 網戀常常沒結果 我看了很多知識......外國人風流的功力........ 只是我好像真的喜歡他了

更新12:

謝謝你們都一語搓破 那我要怎麼和他說清楚 ?? 其實我英文沒有很強啦 很多想表達的 都說不好

更新13:

其實一開始他以為我有經驗 是後來我不小心說溜嘴的 但是他會限制我 吃 玩 回家時間 和誰出去 運動時間 這.....是不是有點奇怪??

更新14:

我把它刪掉了 謝謝大家敲醒我 交付投票囉

回答 (6)

2008-09-03 12:00 am
✔ 最佳答案
其實不只外國人就連本國人都不容易分辨,
沒有相處過都不能斷言,
不過不管怎麼樣都要保護自己,
尤其他一直聳恿你網愛,這是有風險的,
有時候對方可能是一群人在惡搞而不是一個人,
所以這點千萬不能答應他,不然哪天可能會發現自己在網路上出名了,
還有他有一句話就很現實,如果你不答應該做他的女朋友,
那就連見面的機會都沒有,這個讓人覺得他是很利己主義,
還有他繞來繞去就是繞到要你嘗試跟他做愛,
不知道是不是國情的關係,總覺得他一定要把你弄到手。

這個很難幫你判斷,
如果國內男人這樣說,那玩玩的可能性就很大,
可就國外男人來說,也許他覺得這是很正常的事,
畢竟國情不同社會的價值觀點也不同,
而相同的是,玩咖對涉世未深的女孩子都會想弄上手。
2008-09-03 11:28 am
香港有超多這類混蛋專找台灣的女孩,就是因為知道台灣的女孩比較單純又好騙(我是說真的,沒有惡意)。

我是你的話就騙他過來台灣找你,再約他去一些偏僻地方,然後找幾個好友扮作打劫把他打個半死。

2008-09-03 03:29:22 補充:
忘了說我是個正直的香港人
2008-09-03 8:49 am
他限制什麼不重要。網戀是虛幻的,除非他捧上鈔票請妳飛到德國和他見面,也許他還真的有一點點心。
重點是他根本就在唬爛,靠著一口爛英文也想上網把妹。
你別呆呆地被騙了,德國人大部分其實歧視亞洲人,亞洲人在某些德國人眼中,就如同我們眼中的外勞一樣。
別為這種無聊事煩心,好好學一下英文。看妳們打的英文看得很難過。
2008-09-02 11:19 pm
You are a little young to settle down. I've had some great friends online, but I've also met some really unpleasant people. My advise: don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable or anything that you will regret later. It's easy to fall in love online, but don't take it too seriously unless you are positively sure that the person is really worth your love.

Based on what you've posted, I'd say he's just playing, and you will be seen as a challenge for him to get. If you still want to take your chances and meet with him, make sure you bring friends with you. Trust your instinct, if you feel any discomfort in anyway, don't let it continue. Protect yourself and know that there are a lot more good and bad people out there on the net and in real life for you to meet.

2008-09-02 5:28 am
你要小心了
網路上騙子可是很多的
如果甜言蜜語讓妳沖昏了頭
做出視訊...等等的事的話就糟了
對方可能會藉此恐嚇取財唷~
2008-09-02 3:01 am
不是網戀沒結果~!!!
是妳在感情世界還太嫩了~!!!
他許多試探性的問題~
妳還傻傻告訴他"妳未涉世"(處女~)
我只能說外國人把妹功力是很好的~
重要的是妳的感情觀是否能經得起玩玩的~!?

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