拍左5年拖,仲未見過女朋友既父母

I think you should tell them earlier so that her parents can have more time to digest this relationship.The later they know, the more angry they would be.At first they would certainly be angry, but after some time( may be a few months, or worse, a few years), they would accept both of you, especially when her parents feel that they are old and want a trustworthy guy to look after their daughter.

I know that you don't want to force your girlfriend but, if you want to get married, you both two must do so.It is about you, both two, own future.She have a traditional family.If, touch wood, that her parents introduced her to other
guys for marriage (actually, I think parents may not want their children to
date but must want them to marry), then how could both of you do?Tell
them the truth, I believe that they would be much more angry.

Introducing your girlfriend's classmate to another girl, may not mean that theydo not want they daughter date with another guy.男大當婚,女大當嫁, I
think all the parents know it.I believe that they may just want a most desirable husband for your girlfriend.It is important to know what 'desirable' their parents think.eg, characters, religion,$$, social status, professionals or simply how
deep you love their daughter. You must let her parents 'show hands', then you should know what to know exactly.If they are 'normal'(middle-class, plain
family), it would be easier for you.

2008-08-29 17:03:00 補充：
But, touch wood, if due to other reasons eg. your girlfriend family, want someone with 'noble' family background or be a lawyer or medical doctor, which you may be unable to meet their requirements.

2008-08-29 17:04:35 補充：
Since you did'nt mention these
your question, which would be very obvious if you know your girlfriend
family background well, I hope these would not be the actual reasons.Or
about your girlfriend's health problems?

2008-08-29 17:05:03 補充：
All this would may the problem
complicated, so you must know the actual reason then you can decide what to do in the next step.If you need to do sth that you need long time to do so(or even unable to do), you should know it as soon as possible!

2008-08-29 17:05:29 補充：
If they are 'normal' parents, they may be only afraid that they would lose their daughter.You may try to persuade them that you would, and also have ability
to, take care of their own daughter.You may have to tell them your detailed
future plan, show that your are a trustworthy guy.

2008-08-29 17:05:37 補充：
You may also tell them that you would live near to them earlier or even live with them in the first year of marriage( Sorry, I'm too crazy.)Anyway, you must show that you would love and respect them like their son.

2008-08-29 17:06:25 補充：
You may need to seek a good chance (eg, birthday of your parents or your
girlfriend) to meet her parents and tell them what you need to tell them.

2008-08-29 17:06:58 補充：
醜婦終需見家翁'.你也知道.Honestly, from your basic information, you are good guys.You are U graduates and have a normal job..

2008-08-29 17:07:11 補充：
Also, you date with
your girlfriends.You may think that this is the reason that make your
girlfriend's parent angry but it is also a proof that and you are a loyal, patient
and serious boyfriend & you are really love their daughter.

2008-08-29 17:07:36 補充：
If youare prefer to waiting, it may or maynot be a good method.As I said
before,in future, they may need someone to take care of their daughter in one day, or they just change their mind.If you grab the chance, you may be
successful but it depends on your luck.

2008-08-29 17:08:02 補充：
It is also a quite passive method.Tell them now, it is active but it involves some risk.

2008-08-29 17:08:27 補充：
I suggest you may set a time limit eg.1/2 to 2 years for you two wait for
chance decide how to tell them.After that, you should tell them honestly and carefully.

2008-08-29 17:09:12 補充：
Wish you good luck and God will bless you.

既然你都明白個原因
我覺得你唔應該問 : 係咪好過份
你問得呢句
你似係喺度質問你女朋友
想鬧佢咁
你明明就知問題唔在佢
你估佢唔想帶你番去見父母咩
但佢了解自己父母哇
佢就係唔想有咩唔開心嘢發生

但我認為你兩個再拖落去
其實都係於事無補
應該積極唸辦法去面對問題
逃避係無用架
用如你講 "醜婦終需見家翁"
我唸你哋約埋父母出嚟
將所有嘢講清楚
無父母係想D仔女孤獨終老
父母永遠都係鍚仔女
將最好既比佢哋

其實你女朋友既父母有咁既情況亦難怪
可能係獨生女吧 !
由於至少有病
父母肯定照顧得無微不至
寵愛有加
一路到依家咁大個
難免會唔想讓比人
怕其他人對佢無自己咁好
又怕佢受傷害
你要明白佢哋既心情

就好似你由細到大都好寶貝一樣嘢
如果突然間比人搶走咗或者要你讓比人
你自己心入面有咩感覺
呢個就係你女朋友父母既心情
你要明白佢哋既感受呢 ^^

2008-09-03 10:23:32 補充：
打錯咗 - 用如你講 "醜婦終需見家翁"
係 : 正如你講 "醜婦終需見家翁"

你可以扮哂斯文人每晚同一時間打去你gf屋企電話搵佢...如是者,每一晚都打去噓寒問暖.....咁你gf父母自然會認得你把聲...跟住就會問個女你係乜水...你gf視乎情況可直接答話係男朋友or想追佢嘅男士...咁你gf就大賣口乖兼主動話帶你上去食飯...之後點發展就睇你啦!

2008-09-01 12:04:31 補充：
我唔識用咁多錯哂gramma嘅英文嚟答你..希望你睇得明白

你唔駛驚喎
你又有正當職業牙媽再保守都ok啦
一係你就係第二方面去接近佢牙媽
慢慢覺得你係好人
kaka
之後唔屎講
咩都ok啦

拍左5年拖,仲未見過女朋友既父母
拍左5年拖,到依家我仲未見過女朋友既父母,係咪好過份?

你1女朋友一定係香港女

我老婆家教都好嚴,曾經發生過同你一樣既事,但係而家你地都出左黎做野,拍拖結婚生仔係必然既,佢父母管唔倒,除非佢係上流社會既有錢女而你唔係

我今年23歲已婚老婆24(非奉子)

如果你已經計劃,一定要同佢地講,除非你好似"風之"(谷?XD)咁啦

我睇係你女友父母養大個女供書教學，都不想個女嫁個窮老公，所以管得嚴D，你有禮金同日後每個月有生活費比她兩老的話，咁你好快做老襯啦！

我諗你女朋友既父母應該唔會想自己個女呢世都嫁唔出架!!
你地兩個都25歲喇,拍拖結婚都係一個適合既年齡,你話未讀完書就唔可以姐!!我覺得你應該見一見佢父母,如果佢地唔同意既話,你就應該更加堅決咁同佢地講你真係好愛你女朋友,會好好照顧佢一生一世
豁出去啦~~祝你好運!!
XD

其實,,拍拖,,係兩個人既事呀
同埋你又唔係d咩壞人..
大學畢業....如果佢父母驚佢會嫁左個壞人呀個d,,要捱苦 就話姐!!
其實我覺得佢父母應該唔會阻止你!!
不過你真係要去見下佢父母,,講清楚!!