怎樣才能找到目標???

人生的目標? 呢個問題真係高深到要搵專家寫論文來答你至得咯!
不過,我地d普通俗人所謂搞掂兩餐就係最基本要求啦,可以令父母生活舒適更加好,如果最基本要求都未達到,講乜偉大目標都係假啦!
當然,盡量做自己有興趣又能力達到的行業,能夠在這行業中成為精英更成為自己的事業,相信都係大部份人的目標了! 例如出色的演員要有模仿表情的天才或歌手都要有音樂的天份, 律師一定要口齒靈俐才可以雄辯滔滔,作家一定要理解世情心態才可以寫出合情理的故事等等!
你問自己將來做乜好要看你的條件及能力了,如果條件不足只憑興趣很難堅持下去的,希望你找到適合你的目標啦!
不過,人生目標和生存使命好像是分別有高低層次的兩回事喎!

我同你都一樣，咩都ｏｋ，餓你唔死，又無錢亂洗
我成日都諗，人生既目標係咩，就咪係死囉
人一出生，就係等死，但已然你都出左世，咁就生存落去囉，無壞喎
一生流流場，有咩可以做呢？打機打一世？搵唔到飯食仲打到悶喎
咁我既目標就變成左創作，係ｅ個咁平凡嫁世界，只係『想』
先可以打破沈悶嫁生活，作故仔，畫公仔都成為我生活一部分

其實人唔一定要有目標，想就做　ｊｕｓｔ　ｄｏ　ｉｔ
你鐘意ｄ咩咪做咩囉，打波既咪打波囉，畫畫咪畫畫囉
唱歌咪唱歌囉，唔一定要返好工，做下侍應仔，得閒轉下工
多ｄ空餘時間做自己想做既野，ｅ種就係我既生活
係未結婚之前，應該自自由由，當結左婚你就有責任養仔女，無機會咁自由
唔通真係七老八十先黎夏威夷滑水，係日本滑雪，去非州睇獅子老虎大笨象咩
到時咩都做唔到啦

究竟咩係自己人生既使命,呢個問題我都有諗過.....
我個人認為只有問心無愧就可以了
講真...生命就只係得一次....
有人想平平淡淡...有人想起伏
但係最終都只係想死個刻..無悔
所以有話要有咩目標....
生命就係咁...好多野都唔知點解
但係知道自己做緊咩同自己想做咩..就okkk la

或者你可以好似我咁...
但求活得開心...
不猶豫...不後悔

1. You need to think about which is important:
a. you are still living for yourself (you love yourself more)
b. You are still living for the one you loved such as family member, girl
friend/wife. (or you love your family more)

2. After decide 1a or 1b is important to you. Then you can set your goal to
meet either 1a or 1b.

3. Try to find a career questionair to rate yourself to fit which career fit you.
Many years ago, a social worker give a copy to me and I find out my
career.
Sorry to tell you that I lost the questionair. Maybe you can discuss with a
socail worker and he/she can suggest. You can dicuss the issue with your
parents, teacher or elderly friends.
Moreover, you can read books written by people having differnet career. It
can help you to chose among differnt careers.

4. 人生使命: As our life span is limited, so try to live as happy as you can or
try to finish your personal goal without hurting other people, or to do
something good to your family member or even to the community.

以下係我一點個人看法:

其實你要知道，你自己將來要做嘅就係賺錢，因為喺宜加社會，
冇錢係生存唔到......你現在的就是要好好用功讀書.....不要只滿足
於你所講的「成積okay」，要追求更好成績!!!!這是短期目標!!!!
如果你已經讀完書的話，就要積極找工作，將來過好生活!!!!
至於你問究竟自人生既使命係乜，我個人認為就是要活得美麗!!

以上的意見，希望能使您有所啟發~^^