男朋友好似對我淡左~

2008-08-09 12:23 am
最近同佢出街,佢開始唔會主動拖我,
咁我咪主動拖佢law
點知佢有時唔知有意定冇意,拖左一陣,佢就會放手~好似唔想拖我咁
又少左打俾我,多數都係我打俾佢
講唔夠2-3分鐘就要收線,一時話要打機,一時就話睇緊戲/睇波~唔講住
試過兩個星期前問佢係唔係唔鐘意我喇,佢又話唔係~仲有少少
但尋日問佢,佢答我唔知….
因為我有時星期6都會去佢屋企過夜~
但我最近問佢,我幾時可以過黎訓,佢都係答我唔知
我想問,佢係唔係已經唔鐘意我喇,只係當返我係朋友呢
我已經唔夠膽再問佢呢d野喇,因為佢不男都唔鐘意人煩佢,迫佢!
我可以點做好呀???點先可以令佢有返感覺?
更新1:

我仲好唔做主動?

更新2:

我試過講過同佢講過,但佢一聽到我係同佢傾呢個問題, 佢就會表現得不耐煩....有次仲試過發惡話我~ 當我再次追問佢ga時候,佢就會話: 你知唔知你自己好煩呀

更新3:

to: xero_li 佢唔止打一個鐘咁少~ 同埋佢冇話一個星期會定睇幾多次,總之佢有波睇,佢就會睇 佢而家待業中....

更新4:

to: love718joeychan 唔知係唔係我仲未識醒啦~我尋日同佢出街,食飯~ 雖然佢都係冇拖我,我都冇拖佢 但食野果陣佢都仲好照顧我....行街果陣都有講有笑咁 都走果陣,雖然佢都係冇送我返屋企,但佢都仲會叫我自己要小心d 同埋到我夜晚臨訓前打俾,佢都有同我傾左一陣~ 好似冇咩咁~又唔係咁冷淡咋喎~ 所以我覺得佢仲有d鐘意我~ 唉~我真係唔係好明佢諗咩呀....

更新5:

to: ~~‵‵千年老妖‵‵~~ thx你呀,但我諗我唔會迫埋一齊同佢一齊睇波,打機.... 因為我真係唔識,一陣又會俾左個機會佢話我煩 咩都跟住晒,我驚佢一陣會愈來愈憎我咋 anyway, thx!!

更新6:

我同佢都係21.... 我係第一次拍拖~ 佢係我之前都拍左好多次... 唉~我而家發現左佢有第二個喇~我冇拆穿佢 但佢都好似唔驚俾我知咁....因為我有個朋友問佢最近點 佢應左佢而定有第二個.... 仲有佢認定左我唔會離開佢,唔會走~ 俾佢食住左

回答 (7)

2008-08-09 8:06 pm
✔ 最佳答案
有可能佢厭在喇﹗

請不要再問他仲鍾唔鍾意妳了,真係會覺得煩架,而且仲會顯得妳好無自信。還有他可能覺得跟妳在一起已經没有新鮮感又平淡了,如果在這個時侯追問他仲鍾唔鍾意妳,等於不斷提醒他感情淡了,此地無銀三百兩。

嘗試改變一下妳的衣著及頭髮造型。仲有如果妳甘本不喜歡他的喜好就不要投其所好跟他一齊睇波,打機…來找話題呀﹗妳又不是要跟他做生意啊﹗反而要專注在妳的興趣上,專注做好妳自己,自然地他會覺得妳很吸引,不會覺得妳乏味,不會覺得妳没有他不行。當然也要找些共同話題啦。
2008-08-18 12:36 am
咁你就要用方法試下佢對你仲有無感覺

你可以日日試下打比佢

搵日試下唔打

如果佢即刻打比你同有擔心既感覺

就即係仲有feel

只係其他問題

如果佢一d都唔擔心

覺得無乜野...

咁應該佢對你已經無feel

2008-08-17 16:42:06 補充:
其實我想知你地開始左幾耐

你話好唔好主動

女人洗乜主動

男人先主動

睇男人主唔主動就知佢誠意有幾多

愛你既程度有幾多

樓上講得好

電視劇都有做

千祈唔好當口當面問佢仲鍾唔鍾意你

如果你已經好放得底

先至好咁做..

你依家愛佢既程度幾多?

快D及早發現佢對你既感覺

如果唔係到頭黎你最後傷心程度會仲傷
2008-08-09 12:02 pm
佢咁做係因為佢玩弄感情
妳好快會同佢分手
妳相信一個好既男仔真係咁易搵!?咪傻啦....
總之妳要有心理準備
其實呢D男仔唔值得妳去愛同哂時間
妳唔好以為自己付出就會有用
強求只會令妳損失得更加多
希望妳以後撰擇男朋友時要細心挑選真心對待既男仔
2008-08-09 4:53 am
你男朋友對你感情好明顯經已轉淡,你一係選擇離開,一係選擇留低,自己決定啦
2008-08-09 4:06 am
其實我覺得你男朋友都唔鐘意妳啦! 可能都唔開心, 但妳自己唸吓, 成日都唔開心, 咁落去都唔好. 有D男人成日都逃避, 佢地覺得避避吓, 就自然流失, 就唔駛負責任.做女人唔好咁傻, 為佢負出咁多到最後有回報, 現在没有了. ( 我之前男朋友都是這樣, 成2個星期唔找我到是咁, 到最後我同佢講分手) 現在回想起都覺得自己白痴, 没有邊個唔得, 最重要是知道自己做甚麼, 分手時會唔舒服, 但時間會令自己做回自己! 送兩句說話比妳:糾纏于過去的人, 只會連現在的也失去!

2008-08-08 20:08:38 補充:
這是自己的意見, 希望妳可解決問題, 開心D啦!
2008-08-09 2:09 am
佢成日打機嗎 ?
定係一日只係打 1 個鐘果隻 ?
仲有就係話 ... 佢一星期睇幾次波 ?
睇得多唔多 ?
佢讀緊書抑或做緊野 ? 總之 , 佢自己有收入了嗎 ?
呢 d 都同拍拖問題有關 ... ...
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2008-08-09 03:01:50 補充:
有冇 5 個鐘 ?
定係成日都對住 ?
係玩 on-line game 定係咩 game ?
仲有 ... 2 兩位幾大
2008-08-09 12:37 am
Just be yourself, if you want to see him then go see him. If youu think there is unstable in the relationship why not sit down and talk to him, communication is a must between 2 people. No matter what answer will be, at least you know how he feels and, of course you know how you will manage the relationship. One more thing, there is guy who is not mature enough for a relationship. Good luck!

2008-08-09 16:39:31 補充:
How old are you by the way? Dont' waste time if your boyfriend does not treasure you. Be brave! My experience told me this is not true love. I can tell you there are lots of trees in the forest and you will finally find your Mr Right! It's hurt at the begining but you need to cope with the pain.

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