他為何這樣?

2008-07-26 5:42 pm
我們吵架,收綫前,男朋友話他性格係咁樣,冇得改,仲叫我自己諗清楚繼唔繼續同他一齊?
他咁樣講,我聽左,心好傷!他這句說話,我覺得他唔緊張我,珍惜我,好似可以隨時離開我咁,他好少對我講一些充滿感情的說話,如''我在他心中是重要的''
我不知他為什麼是這樣?你們能分享一下嗎?謝謝先!

回答 (4)

2008-07-26 6:15 pm
✔ 最佳答案
首先你可告訴我知, 你地拍拖拍左幾耐?
如果拍得耐, 而去同你講呢番說話, 我就唔覺得去冇什麼問題, 而係你一直都唔清潔及了解去, 去提醒你姐, 我地唔清楚你吵架是什麼內容,但大多數你話點解咁同我講嘢,點解咁對我之類的口吻,而去話我係咁...做情侶有時要互相遷就, 如果你同去行得耐, 你應該清楚去的性格;
吵架起來,有時會有難聽的說話,是無可口飛.
如果行左冇幾耐,去講呢D說話,你就自己諗清楚先啦!




2008-07-28 09:50:15 補充:
我同我男朋友已經10幾年, 去都係一個大男人,
仲好鬼粗聲粗氣果種, 但係我感覺到去係真係好愛我同好鍚我,
我唔需要去同我講d有感情的說話, 因為去唔係鍾意同唔係呢類型的男人,
我地好了解對方, 如果真的有朝一日去成日同我講d有感情的說話,
好似改變左, 我可能會覺得去係唔係做錯嘢! 仲可能已經分開左!
可必為呢小小事情,同一句說話邢唔開心!

2008-07-28 09:53:47 補充:
邢是打錯, 是需
參考: 個人意見!
2008-07-27 12:50 pm
妳要明白D大男人從來都係有自己冇人地
如果妳想有個體貼既男朋友就唔應該簡高大威猛既男仔
呢個世界冇話咁單純
而最體貼既男仔本質都係越女性化既男仔
佢依家已經可以咁對妳
妳可以想像得出如果將來結左婚佢會點原形畢露法....

我覺得妳應該諗清楚妳仲想唔想同佢一齊囉
但係妳唔好幻想佢呢種人會為妳,為愛情而改變
呢D人而係會要人地為佢地改變,唔會理妳既感受咖(除左扮既時候)!!!
唔好傷心啦....妳D妳要有心理準備
到最後,好多時幸福與否都係由妳自己決擇....
2008-07-26 8:43 pm
大男人果方面呢..
我覺得如果佢真係完全真心鐘意你ge話..
佢的確係可以為你改變..

而幫理不幫親果度我反而覺得無問題..
唔可以話大家因為d咩咩關係而做錯野都吾需要承擔..
做錯就做錯左..唔可以話佢一定幫你咁..姐係佢係一個講道理ge人黎喇..

可能佢覺得肉肉麻麻自己都頂唔順呢..
你地熱戀期無講過尼d野咩?!
2008-07-26 5:53 pm
i had the same experience as yours, but i am the male who say 性格係咁樣...
i dunno why he will say like that, but if that was from me, is juz becoz i dunno how to "tum" a girl or dunno what can i do at the moment, and becoz of i am "dai nam yun" thats y i chose not to "tum" and say like that, but in my heart i still loving at my gf, juz wanna quit the conversation, and the annoying.

on the other hand, ur bf might trying to push u away, coz he reli feel annoying and wanna leave him alone.

i will suggest u to wait in time and see what is his true character.
參考: self

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