一段時候之後,個男仔變左,Keep住聯絡但關係疏左甘,但佢話今個月一定比到答案我,究竟我要點?(10點)

2008-07-23 8:35 pm
我之前同一個男仔keep住一段瞹昧關係(我地會用D間接GE稱呼大家,但E d稱呼係好瞹昧ge!)..
之後我地有一日話係佢生日果日(3月份)比答案大家,[佢一直同我講好期待,表明意思想1齊]甘我12:00sd左段SMS同佢講Happy Birthday之餘,仲表明想同佢1齊.
但甘之後佢就變左甘..1段時間後同佢講返!
佢話遲D(某一日)一定比到答案我![佢仲用個更瞹昧GE稱呼大家]
之後1段時間我電話short short,成日收吾到SMS,我地就疏遠左!
冇點聯絡
一排,我去睇佢Ba11,見到佢,我SD左個SMS比佢同佢講返,問我地點解見到面都冇野講果D..
佢又話返吾係吾想1齊,係某D原因wo..
之後佢又搵返我,叫我下次去睇佢Ba11..
佢話到時1定會同我傾計..但係最後係冇1or.
又冇點聯絡..
隔左一排,佢又搵返我,
佢話覺得襯我吾起,覺得冇時間陪我(佢有時好忙)
叫我俾D時間佢..之後我叫佢考完試先搵大家..
之後就Keep住聯絡番la,(但已經冇之前甘瞹昧)..
有一日佢提起個答案話未比我,我就話佢拖左我4個月,(表示不滿)
佢就係我生日前1晚話今個月(7月)一定比到答案我,
雖然Keep住聯絡,但吾知點解好似我覺得我地GE關係仲疏左甘..

1.究竟佢仲係末鍾意我!?
2.佢甘多次比希望我,但最後個希望又吾見左,究竟我仲應吾應該信佢!?
3a究竟佢今個月會吾會比到答案我?
3b而且個答案係會吾會同到我1齊?
3c如果佢冇比到答案,我應該要點做?
3d如果佢答吾同我1齊,我應該點做先可以令佢同我1齊?
4.究竟我同佢仲有冇機會?
5.我想同佢1時傾下電話,應該要點做先可以同佢傾下電話?
6.我而家可以做D咩令大家關係冇甘疏?

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回答 (2)

2008-07-24 1:16 am
1)他已經不太喜歡你了,真是喜歡你的人,就算是分開一秒鐘,心里面以經有點不吾舒服。
2)有沒有聽過狼來了?男人信不過的狼,騙你一次,一定有下次,你相信他的話,你便是一個笨蛋,何仿一個不手信的人,沒有人會信他的喔。
3a)他答應過你那麼多次,有那一次是真真正正的做的,所以他不會的。
3b)我相信你們不會再一齊,因為從多方面(他騙你的),已經看到,他對你的愛,一經是像朋友來的。
3c)如果佢冇比到答案你,你應該死心,在這地球上還會有比他更好的好男人。
3d)你要明白,兩個人一齊,是大家心愿的,不可以逼對方的,你喜歡跟他一齊,但是他不喜歡,那麼你們一齊不會有結果的。
4)是愛你的就不會騙你,一次可以,但是他不只一次,你們不會有機會的。
5)如果你真的想的話,那麼你奘作你自己有事,然候打給他,你說我有事的時候第一個想打給你,可以嗎?(但是他這份人不值得你愛他的)
6)有一個辦法,你可以pretend你有新的男朋友,pretend你一經不在愛他了,他jealous的話,你還可以跟他一起,不過,別把你的心太放在他心里! ~希望可以幫到你,因為我也有男朋
他也騙過我,所以我應該知道該怎樣
辦~

2008-07-23 17:21:49 補充:
雖然他騙過我,但是我從很多方面test他,他一我的維一一個好男朋友,他比其他的不同,我會相信他的!
2008-07-23 10:33 pm
1. sometimes people may not want to let their status be stable or being fixed with someone, they might enjoy being single and flirt with others, but not willing to be bf/gf. they might enjoy the process of flirting rather than the result (together)

2. as a male, of coz we are always want to have a closer female together wid us, also you guys always flirting together, he wud like to keep this relationship but not equal he wud like to be ur bf

3a. i am afraid not, he might answer some ans but not to confirm to be ur bf.

3b. all the best to you =]

3c. you shud juz leave him awhile, and see whether he will find u back by himself, and hows his attitude. dont show that you reli reli care and want him be ur bf at once. becoz if i am the boy, i know that u want me so much, i will always say some rubbish ans n he know u still r willing to flirt wid him

3d. if he say not, it means he think clearly, since u asked him for a long long time, its no point to make any changes.

4. theres always hope in the world =]

5. juz call him and ask what is he doing etc. dont need to think too much, juz a call.. lol

6. chat more, meet more, talk more... and may i know is he ur net frd ? sch frd ? or something else ?? coz i think u guys relation is strange, coz even u meet him u will send sms to him rather than talk to him lol.

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