點樣令女朋友覺得自己更加成熟?

2008-07-23 6:46 pm
本人 24歲 才不久... 但外表看似..19,20~ 給人看上還似"細路仔" FEEL.... 我做野個時,,都好認真.. 不過有時都HEHE哈哈....
同女朋友一齊快半年... 我女朋友有次說.... 有時我處事態度..唔夠成熟...有D似細路仔... 不過有時都好成熟... 如果再成熟一點就好了...
我女朋友這樣講完...我自己都覺得係咁..... 所以我想再做好一點...等自己成熟一D.....
但我想問問..~ 一個女仔點睇男仔..成唔成熟? 何謂成熟~? 由邊方面睇? 如果要做,又點樣做要好D? 因為我都想做一個更加成熟既男仔.. 應該係男人了吧..哈哈..
如果有女性回答我這些問題會比較好的~ 因為不景都係女仔..對男仔幾睇發..~ OR 可以講下自己的經驗..分享一下~

回答 (8)

2008-08-02 1:16 am
外表不要常常百痴的札札跳了,行路要直、挺胸、要踏實,不要輕佻、坐時不要'UN'腳
其實我覺得不用替女的拿手袋,只可以拿重物..
如你外表瘦削,便要增肥健身..
說話要正經,那些潮語可免就免,那些是1X歲的小朋友用的,粗俗的不要說了..如"仆街", "呢條女" 之類..
無論任何地方,也不要高聲宣嘩,高談闊論,不要認叻,要實而不華,你有多少料,她心知肚明,不用刻意表達,這種男人最有魅力
常時小事不要斤斤計較,不要'哦'師拉嘢,如小了包茄汁、這飯這麼小、這個貴那個醜等...對侍應、售貨員也要有禮貌,說唔該多謝可不要懶
凡事要從好方面看,找好的欣賞讚美,不要先找不好的批評,這樣對方會感到和你一起都很美好,心情愉快
去街要有計劃,不要讓兩人企街,無所事事~
送禮物不用常送,不要亂送,有心思一份就夠
細心觀察她身邊的朋友、家庭需要,能力之外的,也要多關懷
多了解社會事,豐富自己的常識,主動給她多些意見
久不久給她一些甜在心的驚喜
平時傾電話,要先分享她的事,過後才到自己,不要開始便說一堆自己的...一開始女的就只在聽聽聽..如那刻她有事,你要先安撫好
你可多想想將來的事,令她覺得你做事做人有計劃
早些計劃好自己的職業,有須要時便進修
最好可以找一樣東西學學,還要學到底
如雙方也認定對方,早談結婚也無防,給女的定心,你有用心和她有將來

你廿四歲有這個醒覺很好,你做到以上的已很好很好了。加油。
2008-08-01 7:29 pm
點樣令女朋友覺得自己更加成熟? 成熟唔係淨係睇外表架...要內外一致至得架....但係如果為了要討好女朋友而強迫自己改變而睇嚟好似好成熟...你唔覺得好辛苦咩?每個人都有自己嘅個性和特質....如果佢嫌棄你唔夠成熟, 即係話根本佢要你就晒佢, 為咗滿足佢嘅欲望(要你變得成熟 ) 而改變你....咁我覺得佢唔係真係好愛你或者好了解你囉!而且你始終有機會愈來愈成熟 ! 會唔會佢想搵個藉口"飛" 你呀? ( 估咋! 希望唔係啦........)自己諗下啦.....
2008-07-31 3:09 am
女朋友覺得您唔夠成熟, 這是一種感覺.
您想自己更加成熟, 是一種強求, 成熟是需要時間去磨練出來的, 您現在才24歲, 何不做回自已, 而去強迫自已改變呢.
當您長大後您會感到原來天真活潑才是最快樂.
2008-07-30 10:49 pm
其實一般差唔多歲數ge男同女
女會思想上成熟D
所以好多女人ge 另一半都大佢唔小

女人睇男人好簡單
你比到安全感佢就得
比佢覺得你係緊佢

另一樣你要比佢知到你係識得分輕重
manage 得好
咁佢就應該唔會覺得你唔成熟啦

成唔成熟唔係睇表面咖
就算你個look改到幾mature都好
心理上唔成熟就係未得
當然你心理上成熟左
你個look都要match下啦

仲有牙
有D時候好多野唔可以太 over
好似有D情趣唔可以過多
多過頭佢好快會厭咖
最好比到佢新鮮感
咁就唔悶啦=]
參考: 我
2008-07-30 7:59 pm
佢覺得你吾成熟係好正常, 因為一般來說女人永遠都成熟/早熟過男人, 除非你大你女友10年啦

你吾聽見d女人講 - 男人係長吾大的仔路嗎? 所以你無謂刻意改變自己, 而且成熟吾成熟係佢對你的感覺

我諗你可以care 多你女友, 好似放假就安排好晒d節目, 吾洗成日問佢或者叫佢諗(當然你要夠了解佢知佢喜歡咩至得啦)

總之佢覺得你有能力照顧佢就係為之夠成熟啦
2008-07-29 9:54 pm
我BF同你差唔多...又係24歲...但個樣睇落去岩岩成年咁上下...言行舉子有時好小朋友...成日都HE HE HA HA...

我都想佢成熟D架...尤其係個樣...而且我想佢D動作呀...語言呀唔好咁0靚仔..

點為之成熟? 其實冇介限GE...都係講感覺..

如果一個男仔...成日跳跳札...坐唔定...又會摶你嘴...食野都挑3挑4...又或者做一D...未成年GE男仔常做..成年後會少做GE野..EG...成日打機...做完D野要人執手尾...ETC.

其實...我覺得最唔成熟GE係...成日都扭計...撒嬌...

雖然並不討厭..但...就係覺得成個小朋友咁....

ANYWAY...你就係你...你女朋友同你一齊哥陣..唔係因為中意哥陣GE你咩...雖然一齊耐左就會對你某D野會唔LIKEY...只要唔好太過份...應該冇事架....而且下下強迫自己要成熟係好辛苦架!!!! 你E+先24歲..幾時成熟到老丫!!!
參考: ME
2008-07-25 8:22 pm
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2008-07-23 10:51 pm
i used to have the same problem as you

first of all you have to change from your OUTSIDE = appearance.
if possible hang out wid gf try to wear polo instead of TEE, better to wear in shirts. and NEVER wear shorts... sneakers ? not NIKE !

hairstyle... please dont do something OUTSTANDING, oustanding r always extreme, coz u may think its nice, but others may thing is crap !

well it also depends on where r u going to, and what r u guys gonna do. if u said u going to beach of coz u can wear in casual la, but most the time/... please be smart.

while talking to adults or her family, dont always "hehe haha" but also Dont be SHY. i am not askin u to talk a lot to them, but whenever they talk to u please ans it clearly.

another thing, please NEVER NEVER speak foul language. u must quit it ! if u do smoke or drink, is not a problem, but whenever u go out drink with ur gf, please control urself, never let urself drunk n throwout, becoz she will think u r causing her problem.

furthermore, read more news and get knowing the things around you/her, try to find out answer by urself and not by asking.

also, kick ball and basketball these type of ball games r okay. But please quit playing NDS/PSP on the street, or even online games at home. girls r always think these r childish (but reli depends on hows ur gf, if she do play then its not a matter, if she didnt, then u shud quit it)

at last, u may think i am asking you to change too much, and something may rediculous, well.. i can say i used to think the same way as u ! wearing Shirts ? back off plz... tee and shorts r more comfort right ? but u have to show u r mature. thats y u have to change from IN and OUT. if u love her and think u can do whatever to make her feel happy

hope these may help u =] all the best !
參考: self

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