女朋友叻過自己,壓力好大!

2008-07-22 7:51 pm
我女朋友現正修讀第二個master degree;而我卻只有bachaler既學歷。係好多方面上,我都覺得佢叻過我。

每次,當佢講一D我唔知既事情既時候,我唔知點解會突然間覺得好
唔耐煩。覺得好似佢係到踩緊我、睇小緊我咁。

我同佢係埋一齊覺得越來越大壓力。而且,個人變得脾氣好暴躁、好易發忟憎;對佢既容忍度越來越低,仲經常因爲一D小事而閙大交。

有冇人可以幫我分析下個問題,同埋比小小意見我~~
問題究竟發生係邊到?點樣可以解決呢個問題?我可以做D乜?

回答 (6)

2008-07-24 12:01 am
你要記住一樣野, 佢係你女朋友, 可能佢學到一d新野, 佢都會同你分亨, 講比你知, 只不過個樣新事物係你唔識, 講個時只有佢講, 無你講
如果換過來, 你女朋友有無聽你講一d新事物而佢又唔識先, 如果有, 咁你就應該放低下, 平常心去聽對方講下, 要抱住好學心態去聽, 咁樣雙方就會好好架啦.
哩度係我少少心得, 因為我只係F5畢業, 我老婆係大學畢業
參考: 自己
2008-07-23 7:50 am
你係絕對正常的男人!!!!

無錯呀!!!當女人叻自己既時候係好難頂!!!男人既尊嚴呀!!!!

呢個問題係事實存在,最好當然係面對!

你要諗下街上面有幾多個master degree 女人嫁唔去!!如困你唔同佢一齊,佢會比你更加慘!!!!!!!!

解決係....化,要睇化整件事

想像下如果你同佢結左婚,你既下場會是怎樣,

我個人覺得你要同女朋友傾下面子既問題,可以既話不要在朋友面前講咁多野....
(我覺得呢條問題係叫老細加人工更難,祈禱希望神比個博士你做啦)
參考: me
2008-07-22 9:51 pm
你係高估左佢 定低估左自己?

就算事情調返轉

你會因而睇小自己女朋友 覺得佢無用 配唔起自己嗎?

你脾氣愈黎愈差 對佢容忍度降低

這都出於你自卑 你睇唔起自己 點解女朋友會叻過自己~

知識係無人拎到 佢好識鍚自己 懂得增值自己~

佢無錯 難道知識多學識多有罪?

難道知識多學識多就不能交男朋友?

還要錯到要成日同你嘈交?錯到自己男朋友對自己愈來愈差?

這從來不是問題.....係你自卑心作祟而已
2008-07-22 8:40 pm
you may think i am a bit mean, but this is the world you have to face the fact.
everyone is talking about your academic level, your working position..

well.. u both may still think can make it thru, but in meantime you will get pressure like now, and she will start to adjust her requirement of choosing a bf, even she did say how much she loves u and wont change etc. somehow she will change her status, even she can make it, i dont think you still have the face to stay wid her...

what you can do ?
1) upgrade yoursellf
2) wait until the end of relationship

if you reli love at her and dun wanna lose her... please do something b4 she change her mind. try to upgrade yourself, maybe not taking any master or degree, but read more news and books. If you know what course related she is studying, get knoow more about the thing.. finance ? law ? etc.

good luck, all the best =]
2008-07-22 7:59 pm
我认为那只是您自己的心魔作怪,要是您整天用学历来作比较,您会为了一些小事就以为她在讽刺您,是不是您自己多了心呢?两个人相处是用心的,不是用学历来代表谁比谁优胜,要是那样,是不是您要读一个PHD来比她"高级"呢?所以请您放下, 只有能放下才明白到人是平等的, 她现在拿到MASTER学位跟您拿学士学位其实跟您们相处是两件事情.要是您把它们看成是等号的,那我觉得您很快会和她分开,那又何必呢?
2008-07-22 7:57 pm
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