佢係咪唔再鍾意我喇..? T^T

2008-07-16 6:56 pm
前晚佢無啦啦係MSN打話5開心,,我問佢做咩..佢話5關我事,,又5理我..
到左琴日,,本來佢話陪我去買野既..我上到佢屋企,,佢掛住打機5理我,,連睬都唔睬我..我坐係梳化度喊佢都扮見5到...之後我嬲到開門走人,,佢竟然無動於中,,繼續打機!我果下真係好傷心...冇耐我SD SMS同佢講分手...我:我地分手啦
佢:...
佢:對吾住lor...你想我點姐
我:係我問你想點呀!你唔想理我咪分手lor,,e+講到好似係我錯咁!
佢:我e+好唔開心,,想靜下唔得既?!我又冇話唔理你
我:你會唔開心我唔會既,,問你咩事又唔講...你記住,,e+係你唔理我唔係我唔理你!
佢:樣樣都要同你講既?唔可以有野我唔講得既咩
我:咁你唔好講lor,,你以後有咩都唔洗同我講,,我亦都唔想知
之後佢就冇覆我..
我地係咪玩完喇.?/__\
我今晚就上機去美國喇..
3個禮拜先返,會5會淡..?
我應該點做??

回答 (8)

2008-07-25 7:22 pm
男人最唔鐘意女友係佢傷心嘅時候煩佢
呢個時候應該比佢冷靜吓
過幾日佢心情好D
就會同番你講嘢
你地依家正過緊冷戰期
如果佢真係鐘意你
佢一定會Tum番你
若他不愛你,與你分手
你不必傷心
因為你只不過是失去一個不愛你的人
應該傷心的是他
因為他失去了一個愛他的人

2008-08-27 16:40:33 補充:
上面嗰位人兄似乎好激動……
參考: me
2008-07-18 8:06 am
男仔同女仔唔同,女仔唔開心會哭同發洩出來,係需要人既安慰!
但男仔就要一個實際可以解決到既方法!
所以覺得講左出黎冇幫助,又免你擔心,會選擇不說話吧!
其實我諗佢都係想情緒冷靜下即!
你都要學會體諒下佢吧!
我想大家冷靜期吧!你去完旅行,再向佢個道歉吧!
我想你都係仲鐘意佢吧!唔好因一時意氣用事吧!
到時後悔就太遲吧!
參考: 過去經歷&書
2008-07-17 10:02 am
妳係咪傻左呀!?
同呢D咁既廢柴一齊
令到女仔喊既跟本就唔係男人黎!!!!
我覺得妳真係好傻好傻
妳靜係得個喊字都冇用咖!!
點可以俾D咁廢既人做自己男朋友
其實我並唔讚成咩都喊同埋小小事就話分手
但好明顯妳係冇好好挑選男朋友
我覺得妳應該有咁快得咁快同佢分手
去外國一段時間仲好啦!
等妳個心可以冷靜下唔好咁盲目鐘意D咁既人!!
2008-07-17 3:19 am
Hi, I am a married woman, I am not sure how old is ur bf, but I would like to share my feelings between man and woman for you, hope it can help you little bit.
there are so many difference between man and woman, the best way to be together is ... never expect each other, that means u should not want/expect him to do something to you; or he should not want/expect u to do something to him. Also ...
Man does not like to say everything to woman; he does not want too much care when he gets sick; he does not want to bring this trouble/annoying to woman; ... etc.
e.g. my husband like to play his PS3 when he feels tired from work, he does not like to talk when he gets sick; he does not like to talk his unhappy to me too...etc.
ur bf does not add u in msn, maybe he only plays his game and did not online, maybe have another reason. for my opinion, just enjoy ur trip, if he wants to call u, he will call u. During this time, do not call him, but u should call him until u come back HK, just tell him ... u just come back, then see his response. do not worry too much.
2008-07-16 10:24 pm
這是鬧分手 並沒有真正說分手

你照去美國 睇下你返黎後,佢有咩行動

淡定唔淡 可能已心中有數.

有D人唔開心會同人講 亦有人會封閉自己

佢可能就係封閉自我這種人 比佢泠靜下吧~

你有你去美國 佢有佢繼續打機

好多事 其實可以並行
2008-07-16 8:00 pm
may i know how old are you both ??

in my opinion, no matter how cool he is, but this time i cud say you both have faults, well he didnt tell u whats going on, may juz dunno how to tell or dont know after telling you will u mind it (coz may involve 3rd person)

but now u juz ran away and YOU are the one who text him to break up.... i will say you are childish... thats y i ask how are you are... i guess you still in secondary ? or below ??

from the info u provided, i think he was upset may becoz of u are going to US and leaving him for 3 WEEKS, well u may think this is not a long time, but for most of the couples will think this is LONG... he might becoz of this, thats y he didnt tell u why he is upset, coz after he telling you, he know you cant do anything to change the fact. thats y he chose to take it all by himself


anyway, these are all my thoughts, hope it will help la, but one more thing.. most of the male are always concern about "FACE" even he love u so much, he may not know how to show it. So... try to talk to him and tell him what YOU think. =]

best wishes
2008-07-16 7:33 pm
其實佢都唔係唔想理你,係佢唔開心先會唔理你.你應該安慰下佢,就算你唔知佢因咩事唔開心.你要比佢知你係鐘意佢,唔係個話,好似你咁,佢已經唔開心,你仲要喊,佢只會覺得你唔明佢,仲有,男床係有好強自尊心,就算佢想追返你,佢都會因為自尊心而唔追你.
雖然話就話佢因自尊心而唔追你係唔岩,但係呢個係事實,就算佢知係唔岩,但係佢都唔會追你.
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你就黎去美國???咁你就當比d時間比大家,如果你地係真心鐘意對方,唔理幾內,感情都唔會變.
如果佢真係變左,無辦法,唯有放棄佢.
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但係你都要去問下佢鐘唔鐘意你.唔好等佢黎搵返你.
2008-07-16 7:18 pm

其實我都好明你感受
覺得唔知點做
佢咁對你咁冷淡
係女仔都會唔鍾意啦
但當你同佢講分手個時
佢無同意到
反而話佢依家唔開心啵,有野煩
可能佢真係唔係唔想理你呢
兩個人相處應該要俾d空間大家
你地兩個既問題要快d解決
因為你就黎要去美國
佢係香港做咩你都唔知
你一定會解決好問題先走
其實你應該要係佢個面唸
唔好意氣用事!!!
希望你地可以拉番埋一齊啦=]]]

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