大家認為拍拖拍幾耐先好結婚??

我有個好好既例子~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

我以前有個好好既女朋友, 我地拍左拖4年, 開始第一年,

我地都好希望可以快d儲夠錢結婚, 但係初初拍拖梗係要駛多d錢,

所以就儲唔到錢, 不過我地都好開心, ....................

過左第二年, 大家都重有呢個諗法, 但係可能日子耐左,

大家都開始無咁熱衷, 不過果一刻,

我仍然知道佢就係我今世唯一會娶既女人, .......................

再過多第三年, 唔好講我先, 佢個人都已經開始變了,

雖然結婚與否未必係佢變既原因, 但係如果一早結左婚,

佢唔會咁多心, 因為相處耐左之後, 你就會覺得對方對你好係必然 !!

講下我, 見到佢個人每日每日都變緊, 我都不奇然問問自己,

雖然我真係好鍾意佢, 但係佢唔會係我唯一既結果 ~~~~~~~~

第四年, 佢可能出去玩過, 覺得都係我最好, 佢又再返黎我身邊,

佢對我好好, 比以前更好, 但係我承認有d野已經變化左,

我同佢講分手, 因為我唔想拖累住佢, 我知道我既感覺無左...........

我其實想講, 唔好諗住識番幾年先, 比大家睇清楚對方先結婚.....

原來有d野, 當你睇清楚之後, 會改變哂.......包括思想,感覺......

我依家結左婚, 我老婆係一個好大小姐脾氣既人,

佢可能未必比以前既好, 但係佢肯定係我一生中最愛最愛~~~~~~

原因只有一個,.......~~~~~~~~~

因為佢就係唯一同我真真正正簽左紙, 結左婚, 對住我發脾氣, 但係

又好錫我既....老婆~~~

我地識左1年就結婚, 如果要我再揀, 我都係選擇一年就結婚,

因為一年係相方愛得最熱烈, 最忘我, 最難忘既~~~~~~

所以響呢段時間結婚, 你既婚姻只有繼續好落去.....直到白頭!!!

如果再諗住等耐d先, 時間既洗禮會將你兩人洗到連當初既承諾....

都洗得一乾二淨.....................

結左婚就唔同, 因為結左婚之後, 你既諗法會有好大既轉變.....

例如.....買呢件衫好唔好呢, 佢實會唔鍾意呢隻顏色...都係唔買囉~

........今晚好想食咖哩呀, 但係佢唔食得辣野喎, 咁我下次自己食囉~~

...呢個眼鏡佢實好鍾意我帶啦, 咁老土....唉....算啦...佢鍾意就得啦~~~

你同佢每一秒諗既野都會有對方既存在, 你地雙方都會為雙方諗下先,

慢慢雙方都會覺得原來我可以為佢做咁多野........

但係如果你地拍緊拖, 你地就唔會一日到黑都咁諗....

你地可能會諗......都未結婚, 老虎都試下啦, 結左婚就無得玩架啦...

我都未同佢結婚, 出面又大把人追我, 而且有個重好有錢喎,

同佢試下都好喎........我又唔會蝕底比佢既, 都唔算對佢唔住呀......

時間既洗禮, 就係出面既花花世界, 因為出面太多誘惑,

除非你地兩人都好專一, 對對方都好有信心, 如果唔係....

就算對方好信你, 你有時見到一d無謂人響你另一半身邊獻欣勤,

你都會亂諗野啦.....所以唔好拍咁耐拖呀.....你幾叻幾有條件...

都敵唔過時間~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

................v(一oo一)v.......................傻豬頭.................................

nowadays ppl get married then divorce in short times....

i wud say, depends on which stage are you in now ?

high school > uni > work > master > work

every change in these stages will make a person change, well... even not a sig. change but still he/she will change in some how, you can say they get more mature or juz the atmosphere and frds made them changed.

so NEVER NEVER get marry when u havent get to the last stage !!

after all you need to ask yourself, whats the point of getting marry? if u think getting marry with someone = he/she will spend his/her entire life with you ? then you are WRONG. you misunderstand the meaning of marry wid someone !

getting marry, what u need is know well of each other... to me i think at least 3-4 years.... and besides knowing each other, in this world are talking about $$$, lets say you plan to get marry in hk and want to live together.. plz NEVER think of rent a flat, coz you are wasting your time + $

so i wud suggest you save an amount of $ and capable to pay for your own flat ! ( this is also my plan, i and my gf r working hard for it) so included buying a flat wid morgage + cost of wedding approx. you shud have $400,000


well... maybe after i told you about the amount that u need, u may start to think are we looking too forward ? but i will say, if u love ur partner, and willing to give all the best to her, you will need to sacrifice =]

marry is not a easy thing. lol

拍拖多久才結婚這個問題很玄..haha

我認為多久沒問題, 首先要看兩個人拍拖後, 是否慢慢有共識, 認定了彼此, 希望將來一起生活.

結婚不是簡單, 兒戲的事呢,要考慮的因素有很多:

1. 認定彼此:
兩個人一起, 感覺走在前面, 當兩個人認真去面對將來時又是另一
回事. 先認清自己是否想與對方一直走下去呢? 是否可以與他組
織新家庭呢..他是否可以和我互相扶持, 共患難的人呢.

以上問題沒有既定的答案, 要靠你自己的感覺了.

2. 金錢:

不要以為第一點就說金錢是市僧, 事實上兩個人結婚, 建立一個
屬於自己的家, 真的所費不菲!!!(供樓, 水電煤, 衣食住行, 樣樣也是
錢呢).
先確定了大家的經濟基礎是否充裕, 起碼要能支持兩人的起居飲
食吧..

你是計劃想結婚了嗎?

我覺得1,2年就得啦'''結婚先會好似拍緊拖甘...唔會好平淡...

其實無話幾內-v-`

要睇下大家會吾會生活上夾吾夾.

又要睇下深愛ge程度.

加上結婚系人生大事.

起碼拍3年拖喇.

大家認為拍拖拍幾耐先好結婚??
其實無一定，最重要是大家互相了解—段時間，覺相處愉快，無壓力，能為對方共同面對一切困境，又有經濟能力，無需靠別人贊助生活開支，咁就可考慮結婚。