移民後的心理問題.把我逼得快瘋了

2008-07-09 6:52 pm
本人移民到美國三個月左右,
出現不尋常的失落感和空虛,
對自己喜歡的東西提不起勁。
本來在香港的讀書成績不錯,
亦是一個上進的人,
來在美國後雖不至於一落千丈,
但無心向學,有種有心無力的感覺,
一直靠在香港所打的基礎來應付考試,
下個學年就是中三(GRADE9)了,
每個分數都會影響入大學的機會,
不想再頹廢下去,怎麼辦?

回答 (2)

2008-07-10 3:38 am
✔ 最佳答案
Hi, I think the problem is ... you feel alone at school, sometimes cannot understand ur classmate and teacher conversations, and u are worry about the English.
I am over older than u a lot, got married and immigrated here 5 yrs ago. At the beginning of the immigration, I only stayed alone at home and waited for my husband came back from working. I also felt so alone, could not fit in US life, no friend, English problem..... etc.
actually u are better than mine, cos u can studying here, that means u can get along with another ppls/kids at school. Do not be too worry .... the things u can do are:
1. try to improve ur English (listening and speaking) first, read the kids channel and kids story book with CD at least 30 mins. EACH DAY. it is really a good method to improve ur English. it works on me, this method was taught by US university English professor, she is my friend.
2. then u can communicate with others, to build up ur friends.
3. there is no problem any more.
u are welcome to contact me, if u want.
2008-07-10 12:57 am
It takes time to adjust the shock derived from migration. You will get better when settle down. Just pay more attention to your current study and forget about what you used to do in Hong Kong. Try to involve in local activities and adapt their culture can help. Good luck!


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