1Co 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
1Co 13:8 Love never fails.
I am 16. A guy in my church says he 'loves' me.Now is that just an infatuation or is it 'love'?
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well this guys knows me very well. he is not forcing me to fall in love with him. but i know that he is waiting.
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i think that's infatuation...u don't say i love you, u do them, make the one you 'love' feel that you really love them.
for me, love is something felt, not said. and it should be unconditional, meaning you don't expect love in return, you just do it because you feel like doing it.
like when i say, i love this question. you don't have to pick me for best answer, i just post my opinion and hope that it'd help you see love clearly :)
God bless dear :)
BABY DON'T HURT ME.
DON'T HURT ME.
NO MORE.
參考: Haddaway.
How well does he know you? If "not well at all", it's infatuation.
"What is love?
Baby, don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more..."
Sorry. The song popped into my head.
What Is God? Love. What Is Love? The Law. What Is God? Law and Love.
My mom told me when I was ah teenager that LOVE is ah ticklish sensation around the heart that can,t be scratched ,,,,May the Angel of peace protect you , May the Angel of Honesty protect you , May Gods LOVE protect you in your live here on earth ,,, What you wrote ,, shows you are on the right path ,,, good luck , and may God Bless ,,, oll nick ,,,
參考: Love is blind
At 16 it is very unlikely for it to be love... I'm 16 and I feel for that..
Being a Christian myself.. I always loved that verse, I went with this guy and lost that special thing if you get what I mean... And I regret it so badly.. it was so easy to fall into that trap.
I think that at the age of 16 we should be staying away from boys and drawing close to God, because he is the one who trully loves us.
God bless you now & always.
Diamonds on the pavement where the broken glass had been!
Love is when you put others first. Its when their happiness is your first care.
At sixteen you are learning about love and trying to start to work out the balance between attraction, romance, sexuality and love. Its a tough one and most often at sixteen the drives of romance and sexuality are dominant.
If he loves you he will care about your happiness first. If he just desires you he will care more about acheiving his own.
Hey its a tricky time but an exciting one, don't rush into anything, don't be pressured into anything, you have a lot of time to learn more about love.
:) great question, I look forward to the answers.
To help you out ill express what Ive found is the Biblical expression of love.
Love is an action.
Love is the absence of hurt of your fellow man and woman.
Love is a feeling.* I'm for this one.
Love is care where there should be none.
Love is your Spirit.
All real love is from God as he loved us and so now we can love.
True love is caring and putting someone else before yourself, no matter what.
Love usually starts with infatuation, but can develop into true love.
You have to be the judge which one it is. If he's just seen you on a casual basis it's probably a combination of infatuation and lust. You'll never know till you test his intentions.
And how do you feel about him? Are U lovestruck too?
hello
in my life i know ., LOVE IS LIFE .without love nothing life .
may be that guy love you as Father, bcz he is in Church .
in short its the term of attraction .
You need to know him to know what he means but it's probably infatuation. Sometimes they say that because they are hoping for sex and think this will make you willing so watch out. Don't give in to it. He might be dangerous.
Love is putting the needs of the other person ahead of one's self. The only way you can know if this guy loves you that way is through time. But it most likely isn't even infatuation. If he is close to your age, it's probably lust.
I believe love is knowing that you have founf the person you want to spend the rest of your life with and you think about him all the time and only want to be with him. and you have no sinful thoughts about any other guy. you just think about him
that passage got nothing to with your situation . you are lusting after each other. becareful.
If a 16 year-old guy says he loves you, he's warm for your form.
He hasn't matured enough to understand that love is "that condition where the happiness of another person is essential to your own."
I see my friend you believe in God......God is love.......but the answer to that is infatuation!
