我要等到幾時?

傻女，感情呢D野邊有得set時間嫁！感情是自然產生的，我們是控制唔到嫁。依家妳覺得痛苦，唔開心是理所當然的，因為妳付出左感情而得唔到回報，很正常。很欣賞妳的勇氣呀！表白是一件很困難的事，當中亦沒有對與錯的，喜歡一個人是很正常的


無話等or唔等的，唔可以同佢一齊，妳的感情也不會一下子能夠放下，這過程是需要時間。妳都可以稱這段時為等待，但不需要刻意的去規範自己，因為妳和他之間根本無需、亦沒有任何承諾。妳唔需要特登不接近異性，亦唔需要逼佢做決定。至於放下的時間每個人也不同的，無得勉強，有時可成年都唔定。妳對他的感情會慢慢地受理智、生活經歷等等影響而慢慢改變，終有一天會完全消失。一句講曬，就係要順其自然，若妳和妳的感情對抗，輸的必然是妳……


不過佢叫妳等……這個做法真的很錯……妳要有心理準備，可能佢係唔識得拒絕所以先咁講。這一點是從佢的行為去推測的，當然無咩野太多確實證據去支持，太少資料啦！妳亦都最好係咁樣唸，對妳有好處！


妳無隨便找個人拍拖做得好岩呀！我唸妳都明白唔係為左要拍拖而拍拖的。決定一唔一齊要考慮好多因素的，就算雙方各自對對方有感情，都唔代表一定要拍拖的，其他因素配合唔到拍拖都唔會開心！


妳都識得拒絕人，咁妳應該明白他的感受，亦都應該知道愛情是無得勉強的，要唸多D呀！要多D了解自己的感情！唔開心，好正常，痛快咁喊！唔開心就講出黎呀！有野唔明就再補充啦！

Yes la, I also think don't need to be so 激動, calm down calm down^^

Hope you understand my poor English

You are 17, not 27, 37.... right?

You still have time gei, Since you just want to be with him, right? If I tell you don't wait and find another, you will certainly regert la.

You wait, and do you think it is worth to wait for someone you love?

大家認為我應該等到幾時

If I give you a limit, like 3 months, 6 months, will you accept????

Don't lie on yourself, you know in this minute you want to wait, then it is already enough

When you have to wait very vert very long, then you will automatcally abort la, right?

so I don't think you need any specific idea of how long you ought to wait, you just have to realize one thing "IN this minute I still want to wait, I still don't want to abort."is good enough

Since setting any target of waiting doesnt give you any good

No one knows the future, you just have to realize now you love him, then it is enough.

Don;t do something you will regret later

If in the next minute you don't want to wait any longer, then just follow your mind, since it means all the waiting is finsihed, you have to strat a new life.

but now, this moment, this minute, this second, this 1/1000 th second, you are sitll waiting

Don't be so impatient, life is short, time is preciousbut missing something important in your life is the biggest lost

Then cook more and more eligible to be others 煮飯婆 la, okay? ^^

Hope you all the best!!

佢地叫妳表白係十分正確既做法
唔好因為妳個衰仔當妳冇到就怪人地俾妳既意見
其實妳依家最應該講既係叫佢唔好浪費妳既時間
如果係唔鐘意妳既就出聲
叫佢處理感情事成熟D有責任D
唔好成個幼稚園生咁當人冇到就算數
同埋最緊要話俾佢聽唔好攪到其他男仔等得妳咁辛苦


都唔明呢D咁既CHEAP男點解都會有女仔鐘意....

傻女，唔好等呢個男仔啦!

女仔要拍拖結婚通常都係趁年青後生

等呢D男仔等到人老珠黃，到時重有邊個要你呀!

而且你話好耐冇聯絡，好有可能佢己經唔記得左你啦

好有可能佢同另外一個拍緊拖呢

我覺得你有人追但係你又咁做唔值得囉

若果適合的話，就同追你果個男子拍拖啦

唔使等嫁啦!

試諗下，一個女子等一個男子

著數果個肯定係個男仔

而家D男人多數鐘意後生女

講真，個男仔冇所謂個喎

佢可以去到30-40歲先結婚

但試諗下，女仔得唔得呀?

你等到你自已人老珠黃冇人要盞你自已擺黎哀

自已諗下值唔值得啦!