被拒絕了,到底為什麼?

2008-06-29 7:39 am
假如一個女生突然約會一個男生,而那個男生說要看看下月到時有沒有空,這是表示甚麼?
那女生被人拒絕了嗎?
那男生是真的沒有空?還是不喜歡她?
但是,那男生當聽到她說要約會他,他很開心的。
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前提:那女生之前是拒絕過那男生的表白,說做朋友。
那男生都說要放棄了,就做朋友吧!
最後,她被男生的行為感動了,愛上他了。
問過他,他都說即使被拒絕要放棄,還喜歡她的。
可是,為什麼他現在又這樣對待那女生呢?
他會覺得那女生這次約他,是耍他嗎?還是害怕了那女生了?
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到底那女生如何才能把愛表達出來?證明不是只是說說而已。
還有到底為什麼男生會拒絕女生?是害羞,或害怕,還是不喜歡?
其他的男生都會這樣的嗎?到底男孩子是怎樣的心態?想不透。

回答 (2)

2008-07-10 9:31 pm
✔ 最佳答案
個女生都低低地...仲以為咩拒絕....原來只係約會一次....仲要係個男仔只係唔知O個日得唔得閒....唉..........

表示D咩???表示到o個日再問佢得唔得閒囉.....
你唔比佢有野要做???你唔比佢O個日唔得閒???
約會一次姐...又唔係表白拒絕..諗咁多野???個女仔都睇得太多愛情小說.............................................仲要係D純情愛情小說....一係個女仔太細.....(14~16歲左右啦..)

點表白???可以講比你知...D男仔好蠢GA..你唔直接講..佢會唔明你想講咩....OR可能明..但驚GET錯...所以都會扮唔明....
所以..直接講就得GA啦....
得就得..唔得就唔得..一半機會......睇你點做...
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2008-06-29 9:19 am
最後,她被男生的行為感動了,愛上他了

are you sure? Is that love? You miss him, but is that you miss him or you have feeling of him means you love him? Or what you love is just the feeling you create in your mind?

還有到底為什麼男生會拒絕女生?是害羞,或害怕,還是不喜歡?
其他的男生都會這樣的嗎?到底男孩子是怎樣的心態?想不透。

If l love one girl, but I later know I cannot give anything to that girl, then I may desert my chance, even know the girl like me, since I don't want to hurt her.

But of coz not everybody feels the same, maybe he just loves others ^^

Maybe he suddenly realize he doesn't love you, just want to chase you as gf

Maybe he find that being your friend is more happy, since friendship is foreveer, but loveship? Who else knows?

I think the most important things is not why he act like that, since even you knwo the answer, can you change the situation sin??

I know girls are emoitonal, but think twice before action, I think maybe sometimes you are so self-centered, why must the boy accepts you while you can refuse others, everybody are equal, right?

don't think that, " He chases me before and I reject him, so now if I "show" him" then he must promise to be my boyfriend"

girls alsways think like that, when somebody is treating her good, she feels it is good but take for granted, and when one days he changes, then girl thinks," Oh, why everything change?" ^^

到底那女生如何才能把愛表達出來?證明不是只是說說而已。

So is sense of occupation love? Please think carefully, otherwiae you may end up hurting the boy you "think" you love.

證明不是只是說說而已

Then do something! don't just sit here and ask and think and worry and imagine!! you really love the boy and the boy still have feelings on you, no matter how little you do, try your best to express, one day the boy must feel it, if he is sensitive enough, love doesn't need method, it wll be there, but first please put down all your "slef-centered" tendency.

Good luck!!
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