幸福,
This is what we are looking for, right?
If you chase it, what will you get?
You find it is not possible to get it, it seems 幸福 is in the future, it is always in the future.
Seldom say, Now I am very 幸福
It is like a dream, you can never get it, because it is already here
Even your boyfriend is treating you so good, in one moment you feel very 幸福, but in the other monent you lose it, then you say it is not 幸福
so is the true 幸福 come from outside? Or from the inside?
Once you know all the things outside is everchanging, you will find you can't find 幸福 outside, since it is always in uncertianty.
幸福 is not a illusion or a feeling, it is a status when you stop opting for it, since when you are opting for 幸福, happiness, or whatever you want to get, at the same time, you fear losing it, since it was so good, you want to keep it, as long as possible, this arises fear, so it is not real 幸福.
Ture happiness, deep calm inside your hearts, full of love, full of joy, full of energy is 幸福
Otherwise, it is just a beautfiul words, no matter how fancy and how beautiful a pictures created in yourmind, it is just an imagination.
And those feeling, those imagination, no matter how sweet, how simple, how heavenly connected, is just the trick in the mind, it is just one of the desires in the many disires of your mind.
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