just the help and support of my friends...they never gave up on me when i wanted to give up on myself...they help showed me that i'm never really alone even though i might feel like it
Depression. Not wanting to live, and eventually attempting - and almost succeeding in committing suicide. It was a very scary thing. And although I still do struggle with depression and those thoughts, and self-infliction, and so on, I now know that I have a reason to wake up in the morning - and it's him. Monday through Friday I feel like I can wake up and have something to look forward to. He's my new outlook on life. All I want. All I need. My reason for living. My everything. I love him.
Just going through different life-changing experiences. Having kids is one of them. Going through personal problems, admitting them, and getting some help for them will change you alot too.
For me, it is being single. You gain such independence. You learn to do so much on your own, without relying on anyone. It's so empowering. Having a relationship isn't everything, if you don't know your own self-worth! =)