我好低落，有冇人開解吓我？

其實你自己都知道問題所在,只係你愛面子,唔認衰的性格令你難同人相處,漸漸感到自己孤立,煩悶之時想向人傾訴都難,希望自己受人歡迎又不知如何著手,以致情緒低落吧!
你經常想發達都唔係錯,在現今社會生存是非財不行的.不過,發達唔係空想就得,都要有才智,有學識,才能夠在社會立足,先在某一行業站穩腳步發展才有機會發達呀, 所以現在都係用心讀書提高自己學識為先!
當然,中了彩票頭獎是例外,要靠運氣,但運氣也不是你想來便來,想有就有的呀!
你都知道同人唔夾是因為滿口道理,即係死雞撐飯蓋啦,正理唔掂講歪理啦,咁最得人怕,隨時談話變成辯論,別人寧願避免與你接觸了!
你希望多些朋友受人歡迎,首先做人隨和一點,不要自以為是的滿口道理,對家人同學友善親切一點,相遇時不妨主動微笑打招呼,與人談話遇到別人不合自己心意亦不可立即反對,微笑不語已經代表你不同意了,如果對方說詁正確合心,不妨大聲讚同呀!
要知道自己都一樣喜歡別人讚賞,討厭別人批評挑剔的,與人相處只要張心比己就不會給人討厭了,對人親切有禮就處處受歡迎啦!

It must be a difficult time for you right now. First I think you are very brave to share with us your feelings.

I think the most important thing for you to do, is to find someone who can listen to your feelings, for example social worker at school, or teachers that you trust. Someone that you think she or he can support you emotionally.

Right now it is not to FIX anything, but just to make yourself comfortable in this feeling.

If you like reading, find a book that can uplift you and teach you how to be yourself, or books like that.

Learn how to relax is another important skill. You might not know what to do now, but it is perfectly ok, one step at a time, trust that guidance will show up, it maybe an advice from a teacher, or a message from a book, or even through your own reflections.

I found this very helpful for myself especially when I was most frightened, and worried, and most puzzled of not knowing what to do.

good luck.

你試下諗一d同同學岩傾既話題
聽下人地講d咩..之後點下頭 笑下。
如果人地接受你 咁你可以同佢地慢慢熟絡
千萬唔好自大 , 亂鬧人 。
或者係你自己形住有d野 , 但係可能無 , anyway 唔好咁擔心
捱埋呢兩三年佢, 考好d個會考 。
同學 , 畢左業之後就會失去 如果你覺得無野值得你留戀既 , 考完會考都會過去 ,到時在搵一個適合自己既地方。

至於家人 , 你可唔可以詳細 d描述一下...
或者你sd去我hotmail,,係hotmail
希望可以幫到你

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