如何清楚自己的感覺??

What comes to mind for me is the statement, "you don't know what you've got until it's gone." But I'm not applying it to your former boyfriend. It comes up for me about your marriage. As much as it might seem to be about your former boyfriend, your feelings are really about something inside you. Something about your life. Something about a part of yourself that is yearning. And I believe you aren't missing the old boyfriend. You're missing something he means to you, or a way you behaved around him, or the unlimited hopes of the future, or the freedom you had back then. Fantasizing about an old flame always beats the heck outta dealing with the daily grind of working at a relationship. I'll be as clear as I can. Your marriage is worth focusing on. Your child deserves your clarity. And, even if the old boyfriend wanted you more than life itself, your relationship with that old guy still wouldn't work. In fact, he's not even remotely the person you remember and you wouldn't like it. Or him. Really. Now, the question is: Are you willing to be courageous and face that the problem has nothing to do with anyone else? That there is something you are refusing to face about yourself? Your hopes? Your dreams? So, how can you put yourself and your needs higher on your priority list? That isn't being selfish (despite much opinion to the contrary). It's being awake. Stop looking outside yourself and explore the place where exciting things are really happening

其實感覺係好抽象的，亦時常在變，所以並不太可靠。
但，談戀愛當然要講感覺，這正是當中的難處。

我覺得你的朋友說得很對，你只是 '唔憤氣' 吧！
如果你愛他，當初便不會那麼輕易分手；如果你愛他，你便不會在此問問題，而是忍不住去和他復合吧！

你有那些感覺，因為你們仍會見面，因為當初無疾而終，最主要原因是你還未投入另一段戀愛。

容易愛上一個人與否，主要在於個人性格，其次才是經歷。跟一個人的年紀大小無大關係。

我建議你放下心情，把心思放於自己的喜好、事業/學業、打扮 等等其他方面。
這樣，你便可把 [他] 放下，在一個最佳狀態下等待新戀情的出現。

畢竟 [愛] 是最難捉摸和操控的，順其自然吧~
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祝煩惱不再，笑容重開~
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你好似對他總是放不底,但首先你要請楚自己是否對他還有愛的存在媽？亦或你见他對別人好而嫉忌,你一定要清楚是愛還是嫉忌,如果你覺得還很愛他,他亦未有新歡的時候,你不妨主動約他,重頭來過,既然他又是個好男人,你要好好珍惜,祝你幸福。

我覺得係你既情況黎睇
你應該仲愛梗佢....
當你還愛他的時候 我想理由只有你和認識你地既人先知

如果好似你朋友所講你係唔憤氣既話
你有冇做出例如 係背後講同你男朋友玩得好埋個d女仔既壞話?
如果冇既話咁呢個咪係單純既妒忌~

如果仲鍾意佢 睇下有冇機會再發展~
遇到真愛而佢又愛你係好難架
珍惜+good luck