我係瑞士讀緊書,入左來依間學校已經有3個半月啦!我入左來幾耐,就中2左一個男仔幾耐.佢個人好好嫁!我之前第一眼見到佢就中2左佢,一直都好想識佢,我係依到有個家姐,原來依個男仔都係第一眼見到我家姐就中2左佢, 就主動去識左佢.跟住我家姐俾左佢msn我, 慢慢同佢傾下計, 大家就做左朋友同埋假既兄妹, 跟住因為我中2佢, 佢唔中2我, 咁佢都知道我中2佢既. 不過就係因為佢唔中2我, 我有幾好唔開心, 就會介手同埋飲酒, 更加會飲醉. 大約一個月之後, 佢就唔理我啦! 好多人都話我嚇親佢, 搞到佢唔理我. 佢唔理我冇理我1個月. 1個月之後, 佢理番我啦! 我好開心啦! 不過之前我又做左一件好錯既事, 就係用我香港個好朋友個名寫左一封信俾佢, 同佢講我中2佢, 想永遠守護佢. 跟住佢應該係好嬲啦! 跟住就唔理我直到宜家, 都差唔多有1個月多啦! 最近, 我就寫左封道歉信俾佢, 希望佢可以原諒我, 跟住理番我啦! 佢宜家應該係睇左封信嫁啦! 但係佢到宜家都冇反應, 係msn都同佢講左好多次對唔住, 仲講左好多野, 都係中2佢個d野, 但係佢都係冇應我, 咩反應都冇. 不過琴日我有朋友同我講, 個男仔想見我, 又話可能係中2我, 不過我唔會信, 因為冇可能發生既野, 我係唔會信, 隔左一陣, 佢又同番我講, 頭先講既野, 唔係佢打出來, 我問佢係邊個, 佢又唔肯講, 我個個朋友係女仔, 同我中2個個男仔叫做Steve係好朋友, 咁又話頭先講個個人只係玩下, 唔係真, 叫我唔好信, 其實佢唔叫, 我都唔會信啦! 不過我真係好想知道係咪真呀!
大家幫下我諗下呀! 我可以做d咩, 先可以感動到佢, 其實封信裹面都有好多好感動既野, 不過唔知點解佢都係冇反應. 男仔真係咁難感動都嫁咩? 我究竟可以點做, 先可以令到佢理番我, 先可以令到佢中2我, 肯同我一齊呀???
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我係瑞士讀緊書,入左來依間學校已經有3個半月啦!我入左來幾耐,就中2左一個男仔幾耐.佢個人好好嫁!我之前第一眼見到佢就中
2008-05-21 9:13 am
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2008-05-21 6:12 pm
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如果你係想有人幫你令個男仔中意你, 我諗冇人真的幫到你, 如果你係想有人幫你解決你的問題, 咁你諗下我講的野la:第一, 個男仔唔理你, 表示佢係一個正常的人.因為你係一個本身好有問題的女仔. 你完全唔識處理自己情緒, 思想幼稚. 講得唔好聽d, EQ超低. 我估你可能連十五歲都冇(如果唔好彩我估錯, 咁你EQ就要再低幾分). 同你相處一定不會覺得好開心, 好舒服
第二, 你寫咩情信, 寫幾多野都係多餘. 你咁ge性格, 越話中意佢,佢就越驚你. 佢本身已經對你冇興趣(對你家姐多d, 但有你咁ge細妹, 我估佢都會興趣大減). 你自己都知你已經嚇親佢, 如果你唔再講中意佢, 咁大家都可以做下朋友, 否則, 佢的反應你都見到啦
第三, 個男仔本身應該唔討厭你, 所以只要你唔做咩令佢討厭的事, 時間長著, 佢都有可能同你做返朋友, 會唔會中意就好難講. 但在依家呢個時間, 你講任何中意佢, 或者向佢表白, 都只會令佢討厭. 你中意佢, 佢一早就知啦,要會中意你都一早中意著你啦.你仲表咩白?
所以, 我覺得你應該自己改善下自己先, 控制下你的情緒, 等你自己變得成熟d, 討人中意d. 不過做呢d唔係為個男仔中意你, 而係令你自己變得有吸引力d. 同時, 放低你對個男仔的痴情(你呢d其實唔可以用中意來形容),去識多d唔同的朋友. 唔好成日都係諗埋d中意呢個,中意嗰個的野. 咁樣過一段日子, 你就可能遇到你中意, 又會中意你的男仔, 同埋唔會再做埋d嚇親人的事來
2008-05-21 5:38 pm
Forgive me, but the stuff you did were incredibly silly. You shouldnt hurt yourself because that guy doesnt like you and the reality is you can never [make] someone like you!! All I can say is [time will tell]. If i really like a guy, I would hope he is happy and obviously he wasnt happy when you hurt yourself like that. Do you know what I mean? I hope you would never hurt yourself ever again. Please! Because hurting yourself wont change his feeling for you. We girls have to be strong, especially when it comes around with guys!
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