我係女仔, 同一個男網友識咗五個月, 一直都以MSN聯絡, 覺得幾好傾.. 所以差不多日日都講.. 不過多數都係佢搵我先... 佢鍾意講自己嘅野俾我知.. 我就唔會太主動講喇.. 有時都講到冇野講.. 佢就話仲唔瞓.. 今日好凍吖.. 我都覺得幾無聊... 不過都傾咗咁耐... 都唔好意思唔理佢喇！
最近我哋仲去咗兩次街.. 再比以前更加熟絡... 佢搵多咗我.. 佢會傳埋自己同屋企人嘅相我.. 同埋講啲家事和工作俾我知.. 我都會樂意同佢傾下... 但有時講起笑來佢又好鍾意窒我... 真係俾佢激死......... 去街好似唔願走咁.. 好好笑..........
我覺得佢似乎有啲鍾意我... 但同佢第一次去街我哋都係AA制.. 佢係電腦上幫過我一啲野.. 但要我請番佢食飯... 又似唔係... 還有, 佢會打電話俾我呻下啲不快事同埋啲無聊野咁... 我見工去到佢公司附近.. 佢話約我食晏.. 但最後我太遲佢自己食咗先.. 但佢都話下來陪咗我半個鐘... 早兩天.. 我們再去街... 他不時會摸我的頭髮.. 去行啲有毛公仔嘅店舖又喜歡用啲公仔打下我咁.. 好似大細佬咁..... 有時講啲好切身的問題... (我敏感吖..成身紅哂.. 好痕...) 我真係好疑惑... 究竟佢個心意係點樣呢?????????????
仲有樣搞笑野.. 佢俾咗個電腦用的手枕給我.. 但佢唔係買俾我.. 只係佢放咗係屋企冇用到仲有少少塵的.. 送野俾人咁俾法嘅.. 佢係咩意思啫?????????????????
佢同我講過因為要供樓同埋養家.. 所以都好慳.. 經過啲玩具店睇到個機械人話好靚.. 但最後都忍手唔買.. 其實只係百幾蚊... 但佢又肯幾百蚊請我食晚飯喎... 我想轉過間上網服務.. 問佢果間好唔好.. 佢就話打俾我傾下... 有次打來同我講旅行經.. 一講就兩個鐘喇... 佢仲想撩我去旅行.. 當然唔係今年.. 明年喎... 我咪答佢我只會同男友去囉... 其實佢係咪試緊我呢.. 講真如果我係冇意思嘅都唔會肯聽佢講咁耐喇... 噚晚.. 佢約我出街食飯.. 係埋單時因為個侍應向住我.. 所以我找數先.. 佢好鍾意叫我請佢食野.. 所以又唔想俾番我.. 拉拉扯扯咁... 到後來佢先俾番八成我.. 我覺得佢唔係存心呃我錢.. 但係佢點解要咁樣呢??????????????? 到而家佢都唔同我表態.. 但依然日日MSN搵我... 佢係咩心態呢?????????????????????
講真.. 我都開始鍾意佢.. 但我覺得我隱藏會比較好啲.. 似終女仔嗎... 係咪我咩都唔做.. 等佢表態呢????????????????????
(佢已33歲) 男仔會對一個網友或者無意思的女仔做咁多野嗎還是佢係另有企圖.. 佢啲行為似唔似網上騙子?????????????還是佢只係當我一個傾得來的朋友呢???????????????
佢從來都唔會講甜言蜜語來氹我.. 有時仲會話我.. 所以我相信佢... 你哋覺得佢可唔可信呢????????????????
可否幫我分析一下... 可以的話希望能詳細一點.. 多謝回答!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~~~ (10點) 我係戀愛初哥嚟... 唔該幫下手喇... 好迷網吖！！~~~
2008-05-20 1:27 am
回答 (2)
2008-05-20 3:15 am
✔ 最佳答案
um.. 我覺得佢未必係騙子既，因為真係有好多人都係咁，網上識，不過當然要萬事小心啦。第一，我覺得你要放鬆Ｄ，因為我覺得你對你既唸法太緊張.. 太緊張只會令你減底分析力..
33yrs.. 係咪無女朋友呀佢？ 33yrs係適婚年齡尾，我覺得佢係想快Ｄ搵個老婆..
又或者佢想搵個真心的朋友，但係佢的行為比人感覺好似好心急咁..
他不時會摸我的頭髮-----呢Ｄ行為係一個大男人會做既事，無Feel都會摸你Hair，拍兩下頭，當你係小妹妹雖要人地Care之類.. 不過就對你幾有興趣囉（呢樣我試得多..）
(我敏感吖..成身紅哂.. 好痕...)-----呢Ｄ係friend都會講嫁啦......... 超平常.. 不過我肯定佢覺得同你一起幾舒服囉
到而家佢都唔同我表態.. 但依然日日MSN搵我... 佢係咩心態呢---- 佢覺得未係時候，如果佢係一個真係好男人，佢吾會咁快落手.. 大家其實都估緊大家試緊大家（好似你咁呀..）
想追你就梗嫁啦（正常黎講），不過你都要睇下佢係咪對身邊的朋友都係咁先，免得自作多情..
講真，可吾可信只有你先知！只有你先幫到自己，或者你唸Ｄ問題試下佢囉。我覺得你講果Ｄ所謂既攪笑野，其實好多都係Friend都會做既事，你可能少接觸呢類人，你覺得奇怪姐 ^^
吾好話我話，就算你同左佢一起，你都會凝住佢會吾會係騙你嫁...
如果你吾驚就吾會發Post 問啦..
呢樣你要唸過了過吾過到自己喇..
當然係等佢講先算啦！喂呀姐，你而家好似驚佢多Ｄwo.. 做咩你做主動，萬一佢係騙子，咁你咪水魚？！都吾知人地係咪引你入局嫁姐.. 吾好吾好！！！靜觀其變啦..
我覺得你最好起下佢個底，識下佢的朋友、睇下佢電話、去 yahoo search 下佢Ｄ野，etc..
參考: I'm Girl ^^
2008-05-20 1:51 am
Normally men acted like this is: He have feelings with you.
But as you say, I think he just dunno how to tell you. May be He is shy.
For short time, I think you need to know how he thinks frist. Take more time.
Get into his mind, find him more to make him feel you care about him too.
If you comfirm you really in love with him, then ask him face to face lor!
Now days we not talking girl can't be active la..
If you really love that guy, you need to fight for it!
Hope you get on ok~
Add oil~
Fight for your love!
But as you say, I think he just dunno how to tell you. May be He is shy.
For short time, I think you need to know how he thinks frist. Take more time.
Get into his mind, find him more to make him feel you care about him too.
If you comfirm you really in love with him, then ask him face to face lor!
Now days we not talking girl can't be active la..
If you really love that guy, you need to fight for it!
Hope you get on ok~
Add oil~
Fight for your love!
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