我係女仔, 同一個男網友識咗五個月, 一直都以MSN聯絡, 覺得幾好傾.. 所以差不多日日都講.. 不過多數都係佢搵我先... 佢鍾意講自己嘅野俾我知.. 我就唔會太主動講喇.. 有時都講到冇野講.. 佢就話仲唔瞓.. 今日好凍吖.. 我都覺得幾無聊... 不過都傾咗咁耐... 都唔好意思唔理佢喇！
最近我哋仲去咗兩次街.. 再比以前更加熟絡... 佢搵多咗我.. 佢會傳埋自己同屋企人嘅相我.. 同埋講啲家事和工作俾我知.. 我都會樂意同佢傾下... 但有時講起笑來佢又好鍾意窒我... 真係俾佢激死......... 去街好似唔願走咁.. 好好笑..........
我覺得佢似乎有啲鍾意我... 但同佢第一次去街我哋都係AA制.. 佢係電腦上幫過我一啲野.. 但要我請番佢食飯... 又似唔係... 還有, 佢會打電話俾我呻下啲不快事同埋啲無聊野咁... 我見工去到佢公司附近.. 佢話約我食晏.. 但最後我太遲佢自己食咗先.. 但佢都話下來陪咗我半個鐘... 早兩天.. 我們再去街... 他不時會摸我的頭髮.. 去行啲有毛公仔嘅店舖又喜歡用啲公仔打下我咁.. 好似大細佬咁..... 有時講啲好切身的問題... (我敏感吖..成身紅哂.. 好痕...) 我真係好疑惑... 究竟佢個心意係點樣呢?????????????
仲有樣搞笑野.. 佢俾咗個電腦用的手枕給我.. 但佢唔係買俾我.. 只係佢放咗係屋企冇用到仲有少少塵的.. 送野俾人咁俾法嘅.. 佢係咩意思啫?????????????????
佢同我講過因為要供樓同埋養家.. 所以都好慳.. 經過啲玩具店睇到個機械人話好靚.. 但最後都忍手唔買.. 其實只係百幾蚊... 但佢又肯幾百蚊請我食晚飯喎... 我想轉過間上網服務.. 問佢果間好唔好.. 佢就話打俾我傾下... 有次打來同我講旅行經.. 一講就兩個鐘喇... 佢仲想撩我去旅行.. 當然唔係今年.. 明年喎... 我咪答佢我只會同男友去囉... 其實佢係咪試緊我呢.. 講真如果我係冇意思嘅都唔會肯聽佢講咁耐喇... 不過到而家佢都唔同我表態.. 但依然日日MSN搵我... 佢係咩心態呢?????????????????????
講真.. 我都開始鍾意佢.. 但我覺得我隱藏會比較好啲.. 似終女仔嗎... 係咪我咩都唔做.. 等佢表態呢????????????????????
(佢已33歲) 男仔會對一個網友或者無意思的女仔做咁多野嗎還是佢係另有企圖.. 佢啲行為似唔似網上騙子?????????????還是佢只係當我一個傾得來的朋友呢???????????????
佢從來都唔會講甜言蜜語來氹我.. 有時仲會話我.. 所以我相信佢... 你哋覺得佢可唔可信呢????????????????
可否幫我分析一下... 可以的話希望能詳細一點.. 多謝回答!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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2008-05-17 7:25 am
回答 (4)
2008-05-17 6:47 pm
✔ 最佳答案
好啦！幫下你啦！唔，我諗個男仔都係認真既，
拍拖係一個過程，
係個過程裡面選擇一個陪自己終生既人。
我建議你可以試下同佢慢慢黎，
不過如果你自己唔表態，
人地都唔知你係唔係對佢有意思，
咁佢又點會行第一步呢？
佢怕萬一你唔鍾意佢，咁以後連朋友既隨性都無哂，
剩下尷尬！
所以你都可以熱情少少，
男女之間無話女唔女仔，男唔男仔，
無人話過戀愛一定要男仔主動，
鍾意既，值得既就要努力爭取，
你甘心一直等佢，自己又心掛掛，
萬一佢以為你唔喜歡佢，佢又另尋目標嗎？
不過都要提提你，
感情唔好一放就放哂落去，
始於拍拖只係選擇伴侶，未必一簡就中，
但如果唔試又永遠都唔會搵到！
當中如何衡量，呢點靠你自己，
我相信無論係唔係戀愛初哥，
都可以控制都自己既感情收放！
加油，有咩困難都歡迎搵我！
可以send e-mail比我拎msn！
2008-05-17 2:58 pm
This is a very very simple case! I think you are not the first time to start or target in sight in your life cause you are not 18 22 already! I reckon you don't even need to know what you or he is doing right now and this si the best way to protect yourself! If the boy want to play games with you, all you need to do to win the game is ... quit the game because in a game there is winner or loser ... also you can choose not to join as a player! Then the boy would no mood to continue the game because only he was in! And he have to be clear with you what is going on! I really think that why you rush to make it clear and worry about this relationship? Sometime this can let you guys have more chance to know more about each other, cna let the relationship to burn up step by step! Don't you understand what is easy come and easy go, quick in and quick out? I think you should just do what you were doing without and rush and hurry! Then think will more clear by time passed!
2008-05-17 8:10 am
以下意見只供参考@_@:
首先,佢做咁多野我認為冇咩可能只係想做朋友.....
但 - 佢係抱住咩心態呢個我認為先係重點....
呢點其實可以用時間尼證實
你同佢再交住耐d如果佢無啦啦冷淡左就唔好理佢啦 = =
某人名句:【沒有東西是永遠的】
首先,佢做咁多野我認為冇咩可能只係想做朋友.....
但 - 佢係抱住咩心態呢個我認為先係重點....
呢點其實可以用時間尼證實
你同佢再交住耐d如果佢無啦啦冷淡左就唔好理佢啦 = =
某人名句:【沒有東西是永遠的】
2008-05-17 7:31 am
請問你幾歲亞,可能佢係當你妹妹la.......不要想太多,係佢表態之前,如果吾係,只會你自己吾開心....
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