simple. date beneath your station. so to speak.
if you're relatively hot, and you show interest in a girl that is less hot, it's likely she'll fall for you. And she'll be so happy to have a hot boyfriend she'll worship the ground you walk on.
just the way it goes.. the hotter the other person the harder you'll have to work for their affections.
the trick is to find someone you think is hot, but nobody else does! ;)
u cant, everything takes time, it'd probably come wen u least expect it. it happened like that 4 me.
i had a bf at the time and this other guy who im wid now came along out of nowhere after bein friends wid his sis for a couple of yrs..
u cant rush hings or they mite not work out in the long run. everything happens 4 a reason