Ok, so I'm only 16 and I'm pregnant, as you can imagine I'm not married to my boyfriend of 4 years who is 18, but we planned on getting married when I turned 17 even before I was pregnant (please don't give me any negative opinions about that decision, its the last thing I need). Anyway, he lives with his mom, brother, cousin, sister and her 1 and 1/2 year old daughter, his mom already knows and she's took the news much better than we had expected seeing as how having another baby around seems like a bad idea. What I'm worried about now is telling my grandma who I live with. I'm in her custody but at this point that's wavering and if she decided to kick me out I would be forced to move back to another state were my mother lives, far away from the father of my baby.
So really I have a few questions,
1. Should I move in with my boyfriends family? (They love me but I don't want to burden them)
2. How will I tell my grandma?
3. Can I get married before I'm 17?
How to tell your grandma your pregnant?
2008-03-30 6:25 am
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2008-03-30 6:33 am
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As a minor you need permission to move in with his family and/or marry. If you can get your grandma to OK it, then go for it. It sounds like a better place for you. I would make plans and sit down with her and explain what is going on. Tell her you are pregnant but are trying to do the right thing.If you really want to marry him, you will probably have to go before a judge and petition it. That is what I had to do. I got married 12 days after my 17th birthday (pregnant too). Just know it is EXTREMELY difficult at such a young age. I have been married 17 years now and things are good now but were bad for quite a while. We were both so immature and insecure.
Best of luck to you all.
2008-03-30 3:12 pm
tell your gramma just come straight out and say im pregnant and if she threatens to throw you out live wiht your boyfriends family and no you cant get marrie before 17
2008-03-30 12:19 pm
In 3-4 years you will regret not using a condom lol
2008-03-30 6:37 am
As a child of 17, you can not be married, unless the guardian (Grandmother) gives written consent.
You can not ,as a child of 17, move in to your boyfriends mothers home unless she became your new guardian with your grandmothers written consent.
There's already 6 people in that home and 8 would be overkill.
I think that if your Grandmother has her wits about her, she will send you back to your Mother, maybe she can teach you to keep your pants on.
You can not ,as a child of 17, move in to your boyfriends mothers home unless she became your new guardian with your grandmothers written consent.
There's already 6 people in that home and 8 would be overkill.
I think that if your Grandmother has her wits about her, she will send you back to your Mother, maybe she can teach you to keep your pants on.
2008-03-30 6:42 am
1. well is not like if you have a choice you could live with your boyfriend or move to another state. (stay with your boyfriend)\
2. there is no right way to tell anyone that your pregnant . you just need to said grandma i love you and i need to tell you that am pregnant and if you dont want me here i understand.
3. you need to be 18 to get married
or maybe is different where do you live?
2. there is no right way to tell anyone that your pregnant . you just need to said grandma i love you and i need to tell you that am pregnant and if you dont want me here i understand.
3. you need to be 18 to get married
or maybe is different where do you live?
參考: good luck
2008-03-30 6:34 am
how bout ur babies dad get a job so u n him can get ur own place. jus tell ur grandma u wanted to do a "grown up" thing so be grown n tell her. n yes u can get married at 17 with consent
2008-03-30 6:33 am
1. i think you should move and live with your boyfriend's family cuz they could like take care of you.
2. just be like.. you'll be great grandma soon. haha well.. doesn't grandmas like having more grandchildren? i don't think they will get up sad.
3. i heard that you have to be 18 in order to get marry in U.S
2. just be like.. you'll be great grandma soon. haha well.. doesn't grandmas like having more grandchildren? i don't think they will get up sad.
3. i heard that you have to be 18 in order to get marry in U.S
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