help very hurt?

2008-03-03 10:36 am
i started chatting to a guy on dating direct he was a member i wasnt we got on ok so he gave me is home number and mobile number so i rang him we chatted for ages he talked bout is self we texted each other he said he wanted to get to know me then he just stopped texting no reason why why do men hurt you so much

回答 (11)

2008-03-03 10:48 am
✔ 最佳答案
It could be a number of possibilities. Maybe he does still like you but: his hands got chopped off, his mommy took his cell phone away, he didn't pay the phone bill and it got shut off, he's in a coma, lost his cell phone, he's in jail or was taken away by aliens. Ya see, there's no need to jump to conclusions just yet.
2008-03-03 6:43 pm
To put it bluntley, men dont have the knowledge of how to treat a girl. You get the occasinal men who do. Most men just think of what they can get and not how its going to affect the other person.

However, being a man myself, i dont understand how they can be such heartless and destroy girls feelings.

Think about this though, luckly you did not know him personally, only from a website and from texts and phone calls. Some people only go on dating websites to recieve the pleasure that they are not getting from the partner and by talking to someone on the phone can help to cheer people up!

If i was you, i would go out with your mates, live you live how you are right now, forget that he was there and then when you find someone make sure you meet them first before contacting, that way you can see the real side to them and not the online and fake side to them.

All you need now is to enjoy life with your friends to take your mind off things, you shall soon recover :)

Good luck
God Bless
2008-03-03 7:14 pm
He was probably already in a relationship!
Wanting to have his cake and eat it... you are better off without him
2008-03-03 6:44 pm
i beleive u shud not keep any premonitions until and unless u come to know of the truth. maybe he himself has got some personal problems, maybe he is unable to contact u for some reason!
many things r there which can b of higher priority than u.
so better first hav a conversation, then come to a conclusion!
2008-03-03 6:43 pm
If he suddenly stopped texting he may have lost his phone or had it pinched. Maybe he has lost your number if this has happened. If you suspect this is not the case then try and move on. eventually you will find someone who will appreciate you. Try and keep your smile on :)
2008-03-03 6:43 pm
dont take it personally okay. the dude must be a player or he got another person he was trying for.
2008-03-03 6:43 pm
!someone must have stopped him to do so. it could be his parents or his gf or could be from your family!!!
2008-03-03 6:42 pm
He hardly led you astray did he......surely we all have the right to stop continuing with suchactions be we male or female - do you not think women sometimes act like this - why blame men !
2008-03-03 6:41 pm
Maybe because you did too much.... Some guys like a big challange from a girl...Like when she plays hard to get...
You don't need someone like that anyway... He isn't serious.
2008-03-03 6:41 pm
Forget this guy ,he is playing ....

Go back to the real life ,and u will find a better lover !

All the best .Don't be sad ,what will come next is better than the former one .
2008-03-03 8:23 pm
maybe he found someone elese more interesting than you

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