what am i entitled to?

家庭及人際關係婚姻與離婚

[匿名]

2008-02-25 10:41 am

my wife has told me to leave . she had the house before i met her , i moved in three years ago and have been paying the morgage all that time , we have been married for eighteen months , she has four children under sixteen non of which are mine , when i moved in i spent twenty thousand doing the house up . what am i entitled to now she wants a divorce ,

更新1:

the house is in her name only although we do have a loan secured on house in both names

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i moved out to give her space but she still wants a divorce

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i live in the uk

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[匿名]

2008-02-25 10:46 am

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tell her to stick it up her ***.. they always get what they want.. seriously do not go anywhere.. this woman has obviously taken you for granteed. is the house in your name or both?
xx

seriously go back and stand your ground. have your priorities in the right place. **** her!!

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[匿名]

2008-02-25 10:53 am

This is a tricky one, your best bet is to go and see a solicitor, 18 months is classed as a short marriage so you will get out what you have put in if you can prove you have been paying towards the mortgage etc,.
They will not make her sell becuse she has children living with her.
But i think you will be entitled to something.
Good luck sorry i could not be more help.

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[匿名]

2008-02-25 10:47 am

you have an interesting name for a man.

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[匿名]

2008-02-25 4:12 pm

tricky 1 mate !!
maybe if you can prove in the way of pay slips, bank statements, and reciepts for all you`v payed out a good solicitor may be able 2 get you a few grand.
but without all that i dought you`d get anything.
as soon as you started payin the morgage you should of told her
you would only do so if your name went on the deeds but its abit late now..
good luck

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[匿名]

2008-02-25 1:37 pm

Judith...????see a lawyer..some do free consultations...there may be organisations to help lesbians with this sort of thing..Judith????

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[匿名]

2008-02-25 1:06 pm

I think you will find that your not entitled to much, shes been very coy in the fact that shes kept the house in her name, it looks like you will walk away being liable for the joint debt as well, or you could do as my ex did leave her with the lot and let her get on with it.

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MyLifeIsHard

2008-02-25 12:54 pm

don't leave the house or you'll never get anything. go to see a lawyer. you should get back what you paid.

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[匿名]

2008-02-25 12:02 pm

The house really is hers however, if you both have names on a loan for the house, she may be forced to buy you out or sell the house. You maybe able to recoop some of the money you put into the house too. 4 kids ??? Man o man...what were you thinking? Next time, take your time and go for someone that does not have all those kids! She saw you coming...........and took full advantage of you.

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[匿名]

2008-02-25 10:52 am

dont leave see a lawyer first make her sell the house or make you an offer

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[匿名]

2008-02-25 10:47 am

You need to speak with an attorney who is familiar with the laws in your state.

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