你話係未我唔arm???

道理上妳無乜唔啱,但係記唔記得電視上一句說話"嬴咗場交,輸咗個家,值得咩" 當然妳既情況未至於輸咗個家, 但輸咗妳同妳老公的感情又何苦呢, 長久下去妳又能保証唔會輸咗個家呢?

知道,妳奶奶唔肯除鞋,要妳又要再拖過個地係會好忟,對一個有潔癖(或喜歡乾淨)的人來說,所發生的一切梗係會令妳好唔高興. 我未必完全理解妳的心情,但都可以想像得到.

試想想妳比妳老公鬧加埋鬥氣既時間遠遠多過妳再拖過個地, 而又有可能傷咗妳倆的感情,條數點計都唔”化算”, 係咪?

我當然唔係叫妳做應聲蟲或者可憐家嫂,但係只為一件小事,又點解要同個老人家計較呢, 更何況妳都話妳奶奶一年只不過上去妳到一至兩次, 更加唔應該搞到咁大件事.

我唔知妳同唔同意,但我希望妳會舒服D

你好! 睇到你件事, 覺得你小題大做, 你奶奶一年先上你度食飯一二次, 你都唔比人地唔換拖鞋, 或者佢覺得你的拖鞋污穢, 相信對拖鞋有人著過唔係新的, 而且你時常上去佢度食飯, 佢有冇唔滿意你或黒靣, 就算有都唔會好似 你咁, 上去一次就黑靣卦!!請問你有没有想過佢係你老公阿媽, 你愛你老公就應尊重佢阿媽,如果換轉是你朋友同佢阿媽上黎又如何, 你又黑靣??又講説話比人聽?? 等人難受, 如果是這樣, 請檢討閣下之修養!!!

你不要介我直言,在這件小事中我感到你做得不大能(黑面),我想你是二十幾歲,別人的行為不是要你安排,可能別人回家不用換拖鞋的習慣,條碗布骯髒還掂要洗碗未洗掉去,你老公感到妳對她母親不好便不開心,如果妳可体諒和包容奶奶,在老公心裹一定加分,妳都想老公對妳父母架.

2008-02-12 22:31:08 補充：
不大能=不大體

站係唔同人o既覺度唻睇，
大家都冇唔o岩o既....
如果你奶奶唔肯換拖鞋
你可以話：
我o岩先拖完地，以家唔知乾未，我驚你扇親，你換左拖鞋先啦

咁你老公用d咁o既態度同你講野
你可以同佢講：
我諗住用呢塊布抹你張桌(或者其他佢o既野)喎
你想我用你塊污糟布咩？

我覺得你唔岩, 唔應該咁小事就黑哂口面, 講真, 你算好采, 平時都唔洗煮飯俾老公食, 奶奶又唔嫌你, 你仲想點...
仲為咁小事都黑哂口面, 為左塊碗布出廳質問老公, 係都唔好係奶奶面前咁樣啦...應該檢討一下..

How often she stops by your apartment, I belive she is older generation, and don't want to change. I m younger than 25, I don;t like to take off my shoes when I visit someone, this is very impolite when I take off my shoes, you love cleaniness, I may think your sleepers is dirty too. The cleaning rack dirts can be wash before you use its again, you treat it as a big deal. If I visit someone or mother-in-law, they rush to their room right after they eat, I will feel very embrassing, or say you rush into your room is very impolite. I agree you love a cleaning place, Your mother-in-law as a guest, you should treat her well and bear her ignorant, or tell your husband to educate her cleaniness concept, but not yelling to your husband. You are creating a cold war between family, aftermaths, your mom-in-law drop by ocassionlly, why bother so much. I disagree your attitude toward elderly. Next, let your husband do the cleaning each time if she come over, then, you husband will learn, and I belive he would have tell his mom take off her shoes. Be a woman, do the right thing.

奶奶及老公都非常唔arm。
你一定要慢慢治你的老公。
我一定支持你的!
加油!加油!

我會好坦白對佢講, 我剛剛拖左地, 畢如你先換鞋, 如果佢真的不换,都無計, 因為佢係長輩, 何況你係新袍, 不開心都要吞左右, 我會等奶奶走左先同老公講, 下次唔該叫佢亞媽除鞋, 否則係佢耳邊講到你煩, 等到佢你唔發火當你係病貓, 一係如果知道你奶奶上來時, 就唔好拖地先, 有時係你老公面先講句, "都係唔好拖地, 費時一陣又要再拖拉"比d說話佢聽下囉




2008-02-12 00:12:16 補充：
不過佢唔係成日上來吃飯, 就算吧, 而你老公, 要慢慢治佢

你奶奶咁難得上你屋企食飯，我覺得你應該就下佢，忍下佢o羅！
唉！老人家，係麻煩o的架啦！我o地做後生o既，咪忍讓下啦！
家有一老，如有一寶呀！要珍惜可以同長輩相處的時刻......

嘩~你老公同My奶奶都機衰個喎~就算點講我都會支持你加~唔~ ^_^ v