20 points: Help!!!!!!!!

My personal suggestion is that you should try both ways, no need to be bothered which way is better. The key point is the result of whether you can have a chance to meet the right one. Don't limit yourself to either way which is not meaningful.

However, my advice is that you seem to be in a hurry to get a girlfriend, which is dangerous. The more expectation, the more disappointment and easier to make a wrong choice.

隨緣吧.

My personal oppinion is to build up the relationship by ''Freely romanance'. Actually, if she is made to be your girlfriend, no matter what way you use, I believe you will finally be together. But At the same time, pay more attention to the people around you. This will help you not to limit your choice in making girlfriends. But think carefully before letting her know thyat you love her. Don't even dare to think of other girls(around your age)once you are together, this will hurt her.