請問結婚真的要考慮父母意見嗎?

有時我都唔係好明d父母既想法, 佢地口口聲聲話想仔女好, 想佢地幸福但其實佢地好要面, 要d仔女好過人地, 叻過人地。我遇到既問題同你類似不過係發生係我男友身上。我地想結婚, 錢唔多唔想攪咁多野, 我父母話第一次扮喜事唔可以唔通知親友, 點都要擺酒, 不過都係擺幾圍, 但我男友媽媽要面, 要去5 星級酒店擺廿幾圍, 連以前d街坊都話要請埋, 唔係就唔好結咁話。
係咁既程況下佢唔可以搵親友幫手, 唯有久不久同佢媽媽講下, 耐不耐又講下, 宜家佢唔再話要情街坊, 希望再講下會再好d。我都明白父母養大自己點都會有期望有d私心, 絕對唔會要唔想要任何回報, 盡可能在可以的情況下滿足佢地。在你既情況下先己最清楚, 每個女人都想嫁個有錢有面又愛自己的男人, 但這樣的男人1萬個都未必可找到1 個, 你可以嘗試解釋給父母知, 要找一個能互相依靠的人絕不容易, 好多女人找來找去年紀一把最後可能連唯一的機會都失去,你現在的男友可能不太特出, 只要公一份婆一份, 生活安定何需大富大貴, 如果只是小康出身, 沒有高級職位, 那有幾會吸引有錢高尚既人? 如果你覺得有d親友想法開明, 接納你男朋友又得你父母信任既, 可以找他試做說客, 否則怕你父母連你的親友都怪罪便不好了。試試慢慢為他們洗惱吧, 急不來的! 祝你成功。

如覺得本人的意見不合意, 對不起, 是我太8掛了。

你父母都係關心你地啫。咁啦，同佢地講因工作關係，不能請太長假，你地打算衹是邀請親戚朋友觀禮，然後就去外地拍婚紗照兼渡密月，又時麾又慳皮，近近地台灣都幾好。當然就梗係要預番啲禮金考敬父母啦，但正因唔擺酒，可以唔使買金鐲首飾，叫父母留下自用咯。其實擺酒都係俾人睇，衹要有好的理由，父母一定受落嘅，係冇？

結婚係一件好神聖的事又係一件好重大的事,結婚係一定要過問過父母先!!!父母係想你好,搵一個能給你幸福的人,唔係一個要你捱窮的人!!!現有你們經濟有問題就唔好問人借錢!!!一定要靠自己!

1) you should, and also explain your situation to them.

2) or you may have other alternation: have wedding banquet at Guangzhou or Pinyu, i.e. some other state near HK, but do not choose Shenzhen, because Shenzhen is more expensive than HK,

- have a budget per table, as I know they have 10% service charge.
- plus the transportaion cost (big bus) form HK to those China city,
- i.e. your wedding banquet should start to eat at 6:00pm, so that your relative will not be too late back to HK.

- becasue it is throguh "Western Tunnel" it will be very convenient to HK.
- the most important is to confirm the attendant to attend the wedding dinner.

- just disturbe wedding cake card with informing that you will have "Travel marriage" is an excellent arrangement.....,

- just invite those with very close relationship relative to have wedding dinner.

* Do not have big loan from relative, it is not worth, HK economic is not good you should explain to your parent with that, better save money for your own or for your parents.