比錢女朋友用???

2008-01-31 7:06 am
我同女朋友拍左6個月,佢同我講叫我每個月拿 1500 元一起拍

拖時用500比佢拿走買衣服,1000用來食飯行街時用,我知好小,不過
我不喜歡這種方式,我想如果她喜歡什麼我買給她,不喜歡set死左比錢的習慣
佢好似嬲左我,大家覺得如何?我錯了嗎?她說男朋友比錢女朋友用不對嗎?

我唔知點好......................

回答 (12)

2008-01-31 7:47 am
✔ 最佳答案
男朋友俾錢女朋友洗可以話係一件好正常(常見)既事,在於女性既角度黎講,果d錢既價值並唔係佢既銀碼,而係佢背後所帶既安全感,咁唔可以話女仔貪錢,個意義就好似老公會俾家用老婆一樣。
你要做既,就係同你女朋友溝通下,講你唔想俾錢佢既原因,過程中你要話佢知你唔係唔想俾錢佢同唔買野俾佢,而只係唔想限住晒有一種例行公事既感覺。而如果你女朋友出現唔開心既現象,你要搞清楚佢唔開心d咩野,因為佢亦都有可能係俾你話完後悔or覺得你唔理解佢所以嬲,而唔係關於d錢本身。
另一方面,你要了解個女仔到底係咪因為d錢先同你一齊or佢睇錢睇得比你大,如果唔係既,斷估佢都唔會單純因為你唔俾錢佢而嬲你,如果佢會既話,你真係要留意下個女仔到底係抱住咩心態同你一齊and你係咪應該繼續同佢一齊。
2008-02-03 10:14 am
一個好嘅女仔,絕對唔會奉旨咁每個月用男友啲錢,除非你真係月入四五皮或以上,但我諗你唔係。就算真係,一個好嘅女仔亦只會喺你好自願給時才用,不會主動問你攞,不會用啲錢喺買衣服呢啲只係for佢自己用嘅消費品方面,更唔會每用set定數目。因此我可以好肯定咁講,你呢個女朋友唔係好女仔,只係一般港女,只有佢自己同佢班豬朋狗友嘅姊妹先會覺得咁做冇問題。
你都係搵過第二個女友啦!呢個一定唔長久架!因住佢同你一齊有相當部分都只係因為你肯俾錢佢駛架!你試吓而家經濟封鎖佢,睇佢仲要唔要你呢個男朋友,你就知佢對你係吾係真心。
2008-02-01 11:55 am
Absolutely agree with some of the people above..

It is not a respnosibility for u giving money to ur girlfriend.
Money shouldnt involve in this relationship.
Both of u should build up the reltionship, not just either one of u.
If she was angre just becuz of that, she is not worth being a girlfriend.
2008-02-01 7:01 am
方式不好, 似比家用, 除非已同居, 就算有親密關係, 也不適宜, 處理不好, 很容易將關係變質, 不能長久.
2008-01-31 9:45 pm
真係傻....-_-
咁難頂既女朋友你都有?_?
你咁中意屈你錢~好心同你早d散啦....
佢要既好似係你d錢多過你對佢既愛囉!!!
醒啦!!吾好再傻洛去... 等你賺到更多既錢..
佢就會有咁多得咁多...遲d就限著你d$點用/_\
你一d男人風'飯'都無*_*比條女食著哂....你甘心咩?_?
2008-01-31 7:50 am
我係女仔, 但我覺得唔應該老奉係男仔俾女仔錢用...都未曾曾(又未結婚)就話每月要俾'家用'佢'扮靚'?! <-呢樣更加唔合理...

1, 拍拖係2個人嘅事, 男女都有付出, 咁點解一定要你'額外'再俾錢佢用?...唔通真係一拍拖就係'我嘅錢係我嘅錢, 你嘅錢都係我嘅錢'?!

2, 難聽D講句, 如果你今日唔係自願(我指係那怕有DDD唔情願)咁俾左錢佢, 你好容易會將呢種'付出'睇成係你對成段關係嘅'付出'嘅一部份...但係, 你女友未必係咁諗.
咁如果將來一個唔好彩, 你地之間出左D咩問題, 到時你可能會話'我當初就點點點付出了(金錢上), 妳呢?!...', 而你女友好可能會話:'呢D係你當時都自願俾我嘅啦, 乜你份人咁cheap!~~' (sorry, 我唔係話你女友將來一定會咁講,但我聽太多case了, 唔好意思都要提你一句...=.=)...咁到時錢銀嘅野同感情嘅野一拉埋講就好麻煩!

3, 就好似樓上嘅大人所講, 係咪佢真係冇錢/唔够錢呢? 如果係佢生活上有困難嘅, 咁你當然應該幫...
但聽你嘅敍述, 似乎你女友只係純粹咁認為 '男人就應該要俾錢女人使(佢鐘意點使就點使)...'咁...
老實講, 我講得就連呢種諗法本身, 都係唔岩嘅. 理由我上面講左了, 大家都有付出嘅時候, 點解要單單要求你(男方)係呢方面額外再俾錢呢?....如果真係結左婚先講啦.
又或者, 佢要求得到好似'傳統老婆'咁嘅福利 = 家用, 你都可以要求佢盡番 ' 傳統老婆' 咁嘅責任: 打理你屋企所有野, 照顧你屋企老人家.... 到時就睇下佢會點講?...

不過就算我講再多, 如果你係果D認為只有俾錢女人洗先至=係一個成功嘅男人嘅話, 咁你就俾'家用'佢啦...

最後可能唔岩聽都要講句: 一個好女仔應該係唔係幫你'散財'而係識得為你地嘅將來'儲錢'嘅.
參考: 自己想法分享
2008-01-31 7:28 am
佢咁講我覺得錯囉.......
男朋友既責任系比錢女朋友洗既咩........????!!!!!
比錢就系男朋友既責任嗎.....???
我覺得呢樣吾系男朋友必要既任務......
如果系既話......
咁姐系話吾理你系邊個.....
只要有錢比佢洗既都可以做男朋友啦......
如果真系有心做人地女朋友......
就應該錫住個男朋友......
吾應該叫男朋友買呢樣買果樣,,呢度比錢果度比錢.......
更加吾應該叫你直接比錢佢洗......

做女朋友吾代表有資格咁做.......
佢冇錢果陣有你比錢佢......
咁你冇錢果陣有邊個1定會比錢你牙........???
我覺得咁樣拍拖完全有問題囉.......


以上只系我既個人意見姐.....
2008-01-31 7:24 am
你中意啦,錢是你的... 就咁聽好似個女仔唔啱...

但她點解會這麼說? 會不會是你太孤寒?
或是她真的想要搵個人比錢她買野?

這是兩個個人先會知了
2008-01-31 7:14 am
The 1st thing is y she need such money?
Becasue she has not enough money?
The 2nd thing is " can u afford?'
If you can and she really need it. That ok.
2008-01-31 7:11 am
It is OK if you are willing to give her money

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