Im in highchool, I have no good friends, im so alone, and i feel so miserable?

2008-01-26 3:48 am
The one thing i want in this world is to be happy.
I feel so happy when im around my "friends". But its killing me how they ignore me so much. I only truly hang out with my friends maybe 2-5 times a year. Im pretty anti-social. But i just want to feel like im worth it u know? Im pretty bad at sports too. I never played any sports as a kid so im helpless and humiliated now, it might be cause my dad never played with me, i was kinda a mamas boy. but now i feel alone, i was better being a mindless, innocent child not knowing how sad i was...now..im a wreck...I just want so badly for my friends to like me, I want a best friend that I can trust. I feel like leftovers around my friends...when i walk in the school halls i see them walking together with their "new" best friend and it kills me. When they speak to me on aim and say "oh yeah me and matt are at my house". I feel like they are unintentionally (or intentionally?) spiting in my face, what can i do to feel happy?Has anyone felt this?

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2008-01-26 3:58 am
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well i am kinda going through the same thing. i mean i have friends, but like i switched to a new school and like i am hyper and i thought i knew a lot of people there, but it turned out i knew way more at my old school. Anywas like so i am kinda a class clown and instead of goofing off and making jokes, i just sit there and do my work. i have been there for like 3 months and i have only met like 6 poeple who have ever said like hi, so i feel really left out and i just wish people were more friendly.
2008-01-26 4:05 am
Yes,i do feel it!!!I'm pretty sad as two days ago,a new student "rushed" into the classroom and he is so handsome that all the girls liked him and all the boys went there and talked to that guy.My heart has broken because my best friend went there too.I know one day,he may steal my friends.I'm quite disappointed,i know i'm narrow-hearted,but i can't control,contact me if you like and may be we could be best friend. [email protected]
2008-01-26 3:58 am
im sort of going through the same, all i have is my boyfriend, i kind of gave up my friends to be with him, but when hes with his friends (hes really social) im alone at home usually (im really shy)
i guess the only thing to do is force yourself to talk to new people, or people will talk to you. just be really friendly.
2008-01-26 3:57 am
Dude, don't let it get to you, you still have friends, and im sure you are pretty cool, so what you don't hang with friends a lot, you just dont like to do that, and if you do like to do that, then just say to your friends, "hey do you want to go to the movies or mall or something?" im sure they would be happy to ablige, those are the first steps to best friendhood! so yeah if your friends ignore you, then make new friends, just start talking to random people in class, that is how you make friends, make jokes with other people! im sure everything will be just fine! just think if you were a mama's boy, then you could just hang with your mom, go see a movie with your mom, mom's like to do that kind of thing (im not trying to mean by making fun of you and your mom, just trying to help)
2008-01-26 3:53 am
im going through the same thing
2008-01-26 3:52 am
Yes, I have felt this. I was hanging out with the wrong people. Try talking to other people, -any- other people. You'll probably find some good friends elsewhere in the school :]
2008-01-26 4:02 am
hav you tried inviting them over? you really should. take some action boy! haha, be more friendly, make more jokes, invite them to go places with you. or better yet, when a new kid comes that all your friends like "steal" him and make him your best friend, then invite him over, go on aim, and tell the m who you have over:) then don't stoop to their level by rubbing it in, invite them over too! so next time they are together they might just invite you over in return!

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