我2個月後同女友marry啦!but我媽好dislike我女友,話佢身高已同我平頭,學歷又高我好多…(我大學graduate,佢碩士+差2張paper就係certified會計+鋼琴8級+學好多野),人工當然高我好多la!我都唔mind, but我媽到呢個moment仲ask me有冇彎轉,又話佢唔mind新抱得F.5 or F.7甚至係大陸人,因為容易head wor!
我女友佢人又polite又do housework同love children,話第日同我生足3個,我以為媽會因為咁而接受女友,but佢又話… “佢都唔會為左d仔女放棄份工la!”、 “第日生左個女,咪又係剩係識得教個女做書蟲…”etc
我媽又話,佢will come to see我地結婚,只因為俾face我,唔代表佢接受我女友,所以佢叫我tell女友果日no need to斟茶比佢…真係好肉酸ar!
HOW TO令我媽打從心裡接受我女友ar?
(sorry…本人不太懂打中文…所以先咁多English words…hope大家看得明)
女友生得高…學歷高…阿媽唔鍾意
2008-01-10 9:36 pm
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2008-01-10 9:57 pm
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-0-你媽媽不是咁唔開通呀~~?!?!而家呢個年代, 想話要自己女朋友學歷低過自己真係好難架喎~~
你咪打動下佢, 同佢講下道理囉~~
其實媽媽佢應該為o左你得到幸福~有個咁叻既女朋友高興, 驕傲至係咯~~
如果要你媽媽真正咁accept你gf係無可能既事!!!
因為媽媽級多數思想守舊~~而且佢又岩既,女強人,佢生成隊足球隊都唔會放棄佢既事業啦~~
你咪試下同佢講~~如果女朋友f.5,f.7或者大陸妹都唔一定好架喎~~可能會呃錢啦~~又會搞3搞4啦~~可能D行為唔得體好難睇架喎~~跟住咪叫你gf做返D野討好下你呀媽~~煮下飯仔扮下家庭主婦囉~~
仲要多D關心佢地~~老人家係要人關心架啦~~
叫你女朋友扮到比佢head住咁,媽媽先係大王~~咁佢咪happy囉~~
同埋生個女做書蟲都唔錯啦~~唔通你想個女日日落D咩~~
你咪同下你呀媽講~~做人要大方~~做到咁少家~~人地會覺得唔岩既係你~~飲啖媳婦茶囉~~比當係俾下面囉~~
要你媽媽真係接受佢.. ..就真係要睇你gf點討好你媽媽~~識唔識做... ..同埋有D野叫人夾人緣.. ..可能佢地註定無緣份~~
參考: my bf is only a salon 學徒~~佢中5都未畢業~~而我就讀緊會計~~hi-deiploma~仲想讀degree如果得既話... ..好多野我真係head住佢~~但我會買野食佢媽媽, 佢媽媽都唔會話點唔鍾意我架~~仲話我好~~因為我好多時仲幫手做埋家務~~又會照顧bf周到, 有時仲煮埋飯佢地食~~所以我地之間無咩~~反而我媽媽會話玩下好啦~~可能佢想我搵過有錢人啦~~XD
2008-01-10 11:27 pm
I sincerly hope that you will not be living togther with your mom after your wedding.That would be sooooo unfair to your wife.
I think your mom's concern demonstrated a lack of confidence in YOU .Are you the only child? My sense is that she's worried that your wife will leave you one day cause of her education and Job status. I don't know what height has to do with anything.
Your mother still is set to an extreme mindset of "女子無才便是德". Which is way out of today's reality.
I am not advocating that you stand firm against your mom, since she's the MOM and they're always have their child best interest at heart, but often, those intererst are misguilded and will need time to adjust..
Your wife sounds like a very good catch, good luck to you and congratulation on your wedding.
I think your mom's concern demonstrated a lack of confidence in YOU .Are you the only child? My sense is that she's worried that your wife will leave you one day cause of her education and Job status. I don't know what height has to do with anything.
Your mother still is set to an extreme mindset of "女子無才便是德". Which is way out of today's reality.
I am not advocating that you stand firm against your mom, since she's the MOM and they're always have their child best interest at heart, but often, those intererst are misguilded and will need time to adjust..
Your wife sounds like a very good catch, good luck to you and congratulation on your wedding.
2008-01-10 10:29 pm
其實你理黎都冇做,你會因你mun講過ga野唔同你女友marry嗎?
你自己都識講啦,2個月後就marry啦,只要你2個係對對方真心ga咪得lo..........
your mother只係怕第時你老婆head住你,又唔聽佢老人家話姐..............你仲要講到你老婆係個好好女仔,咁你就好好珍惜啦,依家又polite又do housework同love children ga人好難攪嫁啦............
你俾多點信心俾你同你老婆,將來佢老人家睇得出佢係好野就一天都光哂啦........
你自己都識講啦,2個月後就marry啦,只要你2個係對對方真心ga咪得lo..........
your mother只係怕第時你老婆head住你,又唔聽佢老人家話姐..............你仲要講到你老婆係個好好女仔,咁你就好好珍惜啦,依家又polite又do housework同love children ga人好難攪嫁啦............
你俾多點信心俾你同你老婆,將來佢老人家睇得出佢係好野就一天都光哂啦........
2008-01-10 10:27 pm
I am a mother of 2 children, I understand the feeling of your mum.
You must let your mother know FAMILY is the no. 1 of your wife. Time can prove everything! Good on you!
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You must let your mother know FAMILY is the no. 1 of your wife. Time can prove everything! Good on you!
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2008-01-10 9:57 pm
其實，呢ｄ野，你兩個自己開心就得啦，等你亞媽慢慢接受佢啦．．
睇你打咁多英文，都知你應該係外國生活過一段時間，
係外國，邊有斟茶呢家野？
成ｐａｒｔ取消左佢咪得ｌｏｒ，最怕係地地斟比亞爸，或者斟比你女友外家個邊，咁就大問題啦．
關係呢ｄ野，一定要自己攪惦，邊有得教？
等佢地兩個慢慢來啦，不過，奉勸你一句，結左婚之後，一定要搬開住，如果唔係，一定會比你太太同你亞媽攪到家無寧日．
睇你打咁多英文，都知你應該係外國生活過一段時間，
係外國，邊有斟茶呢家野？
成ｐａｒｔ取消左佢咪得ｌｏｒ，最怕係地地斟比亞爸，或者斟比你女友外家個邊，咁就大問題啦．
關係呢ｄ野，一定要自己攪惦，邊有得教？
等佢地兩個慢慢來啦，不過，奉勸你一句，結左婚之後，一定要搬開住，如果唔係，一定會比你太太同你亞媽攪到家無寧日．
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