Is it wrong not to give my dad money when he asks me to???

It kind of depends. Because, if i had money and my dad asked me for some, I'd give it to him because he's always been there for me and he has bought me many things before, that i probabaly wouldn't be able to pay back.
But i think it's a good idea if you don't give him money if he's honna spend it for something that's not worth while or something that will harm him or others.

It would depend on the situation! Do you live at home? How old are you? Old enough to be paying rent? Why does he need the money?

if you know he doesn't need the money and you do need it or want it even, i wouldn't give it to him. do you still live at home? if you don't i would definately not want to do it unless it was very needed, especially if it is a frequent habit. but if he didn't do it very often and he had a real need i would help him out. happy new year!!!

No. You do not owe anyone anything.

yes if he is a spendthrift so dont give him any momey

Never mind Supergirl, after all he is ur dad. So long as he doesn't waste iot on other women or get into bad habits, it is ok. For he would have spent lots on u & o owe him a debt of honour too. For what u r today.

This is a rather strange situation. Your name says Supergirl, so I am assuming that you still live at home. If your Dad asks you for money, do you ever ask him what he needs it for? I realize that he has helped raise you, but it sounds as if your Dad some serious issues holding on to money or trying to save any money for a rainy day.

If you think your Dad really needs the money, then give him a little, but not all of it. However, if he is just throwing the money away on gambling, lotto tickets, alcohol, cigarettes or always buying something that he doesn't necessarily need, I think that
I would tell him that you have put it all in a savings account or in a bank where you are saving your money. I know that it isn't good to lie to your parents, but Dad sounds like he needs to grow up and learn how to put money away for the future. At some point, your Dad is most definitely going to need money saved up as he gets older. Dad will not always be able to depend on you to provide him with extra money for whatever reason he always seems to be short on cash. You said that your Dad is a spendthrift, so that tells me that he is throwing away money on needless junk, but things he thinks he needs.

You seem to be very astute for your age, so hold on to your money and do not give it to your Dad. At your Dad's age, he should be able to provide for himself without having to always
depend on others to supply him with extra spending money! He needs to grow up and I think you have already beaten him to the finishing line! So, good for you and try to continue to save your money. If Dad is decent, he will not hold it against you if you say 'no, sorry, I don't have any extra.' And if Dad does get upset, then something is definitely wrong with him. I don't think it is your job to help support and provide your Dad with the extra money he always seems to have a need for.... regardless of how he is spending it. It is Your money, not His!

He needs to learn how to take care of himself and his money.
Best of luck to you, sweetie. Hang in there! You are doing the right thing by sticking to your 'guns.'

No, he should be taken care of himself.

your dad spent thousands raising you, give him the $ you ingrate!