HELP! What can I do???

2007-12-30 10:33 am
My dad always shout at me, even for the smallest matter and in a threatening tone. This makes me really sad and wanna run away.
My mom can't help me.

回答 (13)

2007-12-30 10:36 am
✔ 最佳答案
ignore....and be who u r!(that's me!)
2007-12-30 6:41 pm
My dad does the same thing ..he usually yells at me when hes watching sports and things arent going his way.. one time he got in my face for dropping an ice cube on the floor. I dont know what you can do ..just try and block him out I know its hard but if he ever yells at you just think about something else or focus on something on his face ..running away doesnt help too much ..I only got 7 miles before I was tracked down...you can also try typing a letter to him and telling him how you really feel. or if you have guts yell at him back and get mad ..
2008-01-01 4:07 am
So, just let him know that dont shout at you and just call you when he need a help ok?
2007-12-31 4:22 am
hey there there is no reasonfor your father to treat that why and he is abusing you and your mother u need to call a family member and see if they can help you or call the police and if he is abusing yall they will help yall to protection i have shared your pain and most of your fears you must be strong for your mom for if she is being abused she may be scared to leave him
your dad needs help and it may be better if you can have your mom go to a family member house and get some help
2007-12-30 6:52 pm
jus say the truth to them,tell them hw u feel
2007-12-30 6:42 pm
Hm...ok
This is gna sound hard but im sure once if u did it ur dad might not shout at ya.

How about you ask him, "why do you shout at me for the smallest things, i'd be happy to do what you asked if you asked in a nicer tone but when you shout at me, you make me sad"

Yea i know it sounds hard and stupid...and ur thinking "this guy dosent even know what stich im in right now" but please try it. I've learned at its better if ur arguing or somthing to take turns in talking. for example, i have an argument with a girl about me talking to another girl. So i tell her to speak first....she talks i listen....then i talk and she listens...not like a big mixed jungle of words...that never seems to work and makes things worse.
2007-12-30 6:41 pm
freudian psychology says thats unresolved tension between father and adolescent daughter. Is there door slamming involved? he could be worried he's going to lose his girl and he's subconsciously fighting the idea that you're aging, and growing up, and you're not going to be his little girl anymore :(
2007-12-30 6:41 pm
Don't run away, you could put yourself in greater danger. Is there another relative you can trust to talk to? Or a teacher at school? The teacher should be able to give you advice on who to contact. Your dad may be going through stress at the moment, but if this is happening all the while then he obviously needs help. Is he like this with your mum? Find an adult who you trust, don't run away.
2007-12-30 6:40 pm
If he's physically hurting you, you MUST do something, but if he's the listening type, try talking to him about how this makes you feel, or better, write a note and stick it somewhere where he'll definitely leave it. Don't give up, express yourself. I've had to do that many a time, trust me!
2007-12-30 6:39 pm
Talk about it with a friend and have them comfort you. Do not run away because that won't make things better.
2007-12-30 6:39 pm
find the cause of whatever causes your dad to have stress....and obviously he is taking it out on you so if you know the reason you can help him he probably will stop yelling at you or your mum should help you and him really BUT it could be some peno-pause thing...I mean guys at a certain age will face life/love/family-difficulties but then your familydoc should be able to help him out professionally....

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