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今日christmas party d同學響度送禮物俾第d同學, 全班差唔多就係除左我其他都俾晒, 我冇得罪過佢地! 我同另一個同學做負責幫全班訂飯o既, 之前果d人冇計到我地班張訂飯表格, 後尾就唔俾我地班去食飯, 全班就即刻狂鬧狂怨, 但係靜係話我! 連班主任都好唔鍾意我, 我冇一年試過有班主任係唔錫我, 叫我一時點接受到! 我最近去d班入面既一個同學既facebook睇佢d相, 係佢自己同班入面好多個人一齊去ocean park玩, 我睇到喊! 點解我又唔可以做到佢地咁? 因為我怕醜!! 但我真係真係改唔到!!!!!!!! 好好好好辛苦........... 又成日都冇人可以俾我傾訴...... 唉.. 無言....
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仲有.. 怕醜搞到我唔敢去主動搵我個偶像....... 有個fans網友已經同佢好熟.......... 睇見佢地咁frd o既合照真係唔知笑定喊好........

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我試過逼自己乜都主動d, 但好似d人唔like!! 反而覺得我好假咁!! 我有出過力去改.... 但........

回答 (4)

2007-12-22 8:54 am
✔ 最佳答案
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我都係怕醜的
不過而家少D
因為我肯豁達D
扮厚面皮D
唔理人地點睇
人地明笑我明串我我扮唔知(其實我心裡不斷計)
ANYWAY只要自己肯TRY的話
一定成功的...
至於偶像...
其實我覺得你可以主動D
唔好咁局限在自己的小天地
你唔走出去冇人知道你的存在
加油
參考: 自己
2007-12-22 9:36 am
我想問下你...你想人地送俾你...咁你有冇諗過送俾人呢?

你話唔俾你地班去食飯果件事...
你有冇解釋俾人聽點解會咁??
你話老師唔鐘意你....但係老師鐘意你係必要的嗎?

要知道人ge每個動作...思想都唔係你所控制到的~~
你知道你怕醜....咁你就盡量令自己變得冇咁怕醜囉~~
睇多d書...睇多d電視....吸收一下現時最熱門ge話題....
你先至有機會同佢地溝通.....
佢地識落覺得你好人啱key就自然會搵你玩~~
你話你改唔到ge話我諗你應該反省一下自己~~
究竟係你根本係度逃避緊定係真係改唔到......

關於偶像ge問題....我唔知你個偶像係明星定係點~~
但係我相信佢唔會自己去搵你....
所以都係要靠你自己!!!
參考: 自己
2007-12-22 9:08 am
o my goodness. is it true that in the world there are sooooo many people say that 我真係真係改唔到 but they don't even try to make an effort on it!!!

don't tell me you already try sooo hard but i just can't!!! it is possible for people to change themselves, is just to see how much effort you put into it.
if it doesn't work is just you haven't put enough effort in it. if you are about to break down, listen to some soft music and that would calm yourselve down than if you are calm enough put something encourging on thatshould cheer you up to work hard again. but you have to listen deep into the song go and sink into the song not on top of it!!!

i am always alone but i enjoy being alone cause of this method .
it really helps well to me anyway!!
2007-12-22 8:52 am
你可以試下允一個作好朋友先,可以俾你傾訴

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