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I think it is a very personal question, the answer would be really depending on the charter of the man.
To me, I would think the girl for a while. However, I would never try to start!!
As if I have a wife and a kid, take care them is one of my responsibilites. And I know, if I try to have the relationship with the young lady, it will break the relationship with my wife, it will also affect the growth of my kid.