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borrow or not would depends on how close the friend she/he is to you. The issue about borrowing would be similar to borrow money, of course you would assume he/she can return it completely. However, you would also take the risk about damage or lost.
the golden things are not the main point for the wedding, however, if his/her family is poor and can't buy one (it should be bought by their parents). Just wearing one pair would also look no good. Therefore, it's better to find something else to do or wear. Just try to be more western and less chinese, then no need to wear too much golden things.