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When you are in a bad time and thinking of your good friends, you will feel warm and miss them so much. Friends share your happiness and sadness. Everyone should at least have one friend! It is difficult for us to measure friendship between you and your friends. I also agree that a long-lasting friendship must sustain many challenges over a long time.
Friendship never comes by instantly and it is untouchable. Therefore, we have to use our true heart to treat our friends and should care about their feelings. Over time, we should keep a good relationship between our friends. Only by doing that, you will then have more close friends. I think it is the most valuable things that we can earn from the world.
How do we start a friendship and make it grow? How can we keep a good friendship? There are few points to be advised:-
(1) When a friend talks to you about her sadness, never be scared of her. You should become her listener and share her sadness. Besides, you should show your empathy to her and let her know that you understand her situation and will always be by her side. Be sincerely!
(2) When a friend made a mistake, never blame him at the beginning. You should put yourself into his shoes and try to help him. Also, you should encourage him and put confidence on him although he still made mistakes. Let him feel that you are his supporter.
(3) When you find your friend doing a good job, you should told him that you are proud of what he did. He may feel shy in front of people but he will appreciate you from his heart. You may find unconsciously that he also feels that he was so lucky to have a good friend just like you!
(4) If you want your friend treat you well, you should treat your friends in a similar way first. One you consider your friends sincerely and do not take advantage on them, you will soon become a be-loved person.
To build up a long-lasting friendship, you should learn to be a considerate person and give help to your friends in their difficult times. The most essential thing is to give your true heart to your friends. Friendship needs a long time to built up but can be destroyed in a second!