結婚與同居(如何處理)

2007-11-29 7:54 am
女朋友想跟我同居,不懂如何處理.
除了分手外,如何拒絶?

背景:

女朋友大我四年,佢講過我地唔謫合結婚.
我地經常爭吵,大事小事都有,
她不開心時,會狂打電話給我
她更有自殺傾向,亦因為吵架而騷擾我公司.
相識大約八個月,我因為經常外出工作而不能見面.
我出差到海外,她有時會坐飛機過來陪我.
我覺得很浪費金錢,但他不理會.

最近女朋友去了日本讀書,見面又少了.
佢知我放假想返來香港陪我.
但我因為有考試而拒絶了.
其實我放假是因為考試
在預備考試其間,因為講電話太少而發我脾氣.
我亦因為這樣而沒心情讀書.

因為少見面的關係,佢提出想跟我同居.

老實說,因為關係搞不太好,
我真的不想姞婚及同居.
但佢一意孤行.
我真係唔知點
我唔想因為咁而分手.

回答 (2)

2007-11-29 8:10 am
✔ 最佳答案
If you think your relationship with your girl friend is not so good, and both of you are not so happy after some argument, and you do not want to 分手, I would suggest you discuss with your girl friend so that both of you can separate with each other for a short period of time, to calm down both of yourselves. Say both of you do not see each other for a month. I am sure both of you will come up with some ideas on how to handle your relationship after this month's calm down period. Good luck to you.
2007-11-29 11:56 pm
其實睇你咁寫, 你已經好抗拒你女朋友, 而且你女朋友都好似幾霸道, 如果你仲要同佢住埋,
我唸你可能連行出街嘅自由都未必有, 搞到咁, 不如決絕喲, say no.

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