在這家庭已生活了23年,照理說應已習慣,但我卻愈來愈生氣了!本人有2兄一妺,大哥已接近30,我那大哥,從小就不用做任何家務,現在工作了也不給家用,在家裡他卻可獨佔一個房間,我、二哥和妺妺卻要3個人擠一個房間,小學畢業前除校服外,我們3兄妺都是穿大哥不要的舊衣服
發生這種事,只怪我們有個偏心的媽媽,她處處以大哥為先,自小教我們3個小的要讓大哥、要把自己最好的留給大哥…大哥的大學學費是媽媽付的, 我和二哥卻是打工賺和grant loan借的,亦因大哥自小被寵壞,他到仍很任性要家人遷就他
2日前大哥向媽媽提出,希望我們3兄妹做廳長,因為他想用我們的房間改成band房, 媽媽沒問過就答應了他,今天已把我們的碌架床搬了出廳!看!這就是長子,1人獨佔2房間!
其實我聽過親戚說, 媽媽並不想生我們3個出來,只是因為意外,起初我也不相信,但照現在的情況來看,這看來是真的了…我好想離開,但一想到走了就正中大哥下懷,就很生氣!我真想有人可以教訓一下他!同樣都是媽媽的子女,為何要有這種差別待遇!這公平嗎? 至少,我好想要回房間,所以想大家想想辦法…
大仔等於大晒
2007-11-27 10:20 pm
回答 (5)
2007-11-27 10:30 pm
✔ 最佳答案
搬出呢住啦~ 由得佢得戚, 你最多生氣一段時間. 起碼唔使對住佢先啦~~ 而且, 你搬左出去又唔使再睇佢面色, 唔使同佢相處. 你既生活無左佢, 無左自己唔鍾意既人.你繼續同佢一齊住, 你蝕比佢既只有更加多.令你生氣既事會繼續發生.離開佢啦~
我遇到d我唔鍾意或唔鍾意我既人, 我都避免相處, 避免傾計
2007-11-28 4:21 am
嘩！！！
你喺唔喺講真！
边度會有Ｄ咁嘅阿媽！
但如果我喺你，我一定同阿哥帶埋細妹一齊搬出去，
再唔喺唔好比家用ｏ
你想要翻間房点解唔同你阿媽講？唔明？
你喺唔喺講真！
边度會有Ｄ咁嘅阿媽！
但如果我喺你，我一定同阿哥帶埋細妹一齊搬出去，
再唔喺唔好比家用ｏ
你想要翻間房点解唔同你阿媽講？唔明？
2007-11-27 11:07 pm
我個人覺...
你同你2哥搬出去住啦- -
(帶埋你啊妹最好啦,如果唔係你啊妹由你啊媽咁教...我睇佢以後個性格會好蝕低
如你同啊哥一齊分擔下租金/水費/電費個D
同你啊爸傾下叫佢支助D金錢啦,你們仲讀緊書,應該都賺唔到太多錢,
如果唔係問下你D FD有冇人有多出去來屋,可以借住,咁可以比少好多租金
反正你啊媽都係幫大哥既- -仲要幫到咁既樣- -真係OMG
好似我大媽同啊爸咁- -下下叫我好就下大哥!我都有2個啊哥!
但我啊哥都唔LIKE大哥,成日同佢吵,我就完全唔理大哥!
我同大哥2哥都係分開住既- -
大哥個性格冇人鐘意- -個個都好討厭,都係多得我大媽既教導有方- -
如果你啊媽啊爸唔比你地搬出去住你最好都有堅持!
因為我以前都係同我大哥一齊住架- -SO我好明白!
佢同你講左話以後唔會再咁偏心啦,但初頭會好返D但唔洗好耐又會變返咁!
走前都有拎返你應得既野- -唔好蝕俾你大哥!
講真就算你唔搬走,最後都係要搬走!因為以後D錢D房都會留返比你大哥架!
你唔好咁天真以為可以拎得返間房啦,我太清楚你大哥呢種人啦,同我大哥一樣!
成日有人就佢!我彩佢都傻- -我大媽就係太就大哥!家下佢個仔又變得同佢性格一樣!
敗家!
就算辛苦D你都要為以後既自己同你啊妹諗下,因為你再唔為自己同你啊妹諗諗,將來後悔既係你地!
我覺得離開左大哥一家之後好好多- -!反正當初大哥同大媽都冇養過我地- -
都係啊爸比錢,解決啊爸個關就最好啦- -
你同你2哥搬出去住啦- -
(帶埋你啊妹最好啦,如果唔係你啊妹由你啊媽咁教...我睇佢以後個性格會好蝕低
如你同啊哥一齊分擔下租金/水費/電費個D
同你啊爸傾下叫佢支助D金錢啦,你們仲讀緊書,應該都賺唔到太多錢,
如果唔係問下你D FD有冇人有多出去來屋,可以借住,咁可以比少好多租金
反正你啊媽都係幫大哥既- -仲要幫到咁既樣- -真係OMG
好似我大媽同啊爸咁- -下下叫我好就下大哥!我都有2個啊哥!
但我啊哥都唔LIKE大哥,成日同佢吵,我就完全唔理大哥!
我同大哥2哥都係分開住既- -
大哥個性格冇人鐘意- -個個都好討厭,都係多得我大媽既教導有方- -
如果你啊媽啊爸唔比你地搬出去住你最好都有堅持!
因為我以前都係同我大哥一齊住架- -SO我好明白!
佢同你講左話以後唔會再咁偏心啦,但初頭會好返D但唔洗好耐又會變返咁!
走前都有拎返你應得既野- -唔好蝕俾你大哥!
講真就算你唔搬走,最後都係要搬走!因為以後D錢D房都會留返比你大哥架!
你唔好咁天真以為可以拎得返間房啦,我太清楚你大哥呢種人啦,同我大哥一樣!
成日有人就佢!我彩佢都傻- -我大媽就係太就大哥!家下佢個仔又變得同佢性格一樣!
敗家!
就算辛苦D你都要為以後既自己同你啊妹諗下,因為你再唔為自己同你啊妹諗諗,將來後悔既係你地!
我覺得離開左大哥一家之後好好多- -!反正當初大哥同大媽都冇養過我地- -
都係啊爸比錢,解決啊爸個關就最好啦- -
參考: 自己經歷
2007-11-27 10:37 pm
dear my friend
angry is not the good solution. actually there is no way to change such happen. The best solution is to be a good friend with ur big brother , wait until he has a girl friend and try to forgive him as u said 大哥自小被mother寵壞so,u would become 人上人when u forgive his goodness.......GOOD LUCK
angry is not the good solution. actually there is no way to change such happen. The best solution is to be a good friend with ur big brother , wait until he has a girl friend and try to forgive him as u said 大哥自小被mother寵壞so,u would become 人上人when u forgive his goodness.......GOOD LUCK
參考: None
2007-11-27 10:35 pm
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