If you love someone SO DEEPLY,and he/she asked you to leave him...?

2007-11-21 11:11 pm
if this lover made something so bad to you.
and also other bad things before,but you always forgive him,because the love that you feel towards him is so strong,stronger than any negative feelings.
or any bad thing that anyone of you do to the other.

now after he did this very bad thing to you,and you suffered,.............but after that you could step out of it and forgive him,because the feeling you feel with him/her is the best EVER.

the problem now is this guy is still in love with you,but he wants to leave you and break up,because HE HIMSELF CAN'T FORGIVE HIMSELF OF WHAT HE DID TO YOU.

but you are both in love.
would you listen to him,and break up,in spite of your love both?

and if u want to make him understand that u can't live without him,even if he hurted you before without intention,how would u make him understand,and persuaude him?
and without hurting your own pride?

because you feel that breaking up with him,will make u die,or commit suicide.
what to do?

回答 (5)

2007-11-21 11:23 pm
✔ 最佳答案
first of all no relationship is worth committing suicide.
this occured in my big brothers life, he, himself treated his girl wrong and fel that she should go find somebody else better.
BUT she didnt leave.
love is always going to stick around. you must not leave him even though he tells you multiple times.
that will show him that you honestly do forgive him.
just sit down with him and tell him how much you care about him, even though he made mistakes,
"humans are never perfect"
i myself am in love, been with my boyfriend for a year now.
everytime we argue or think about leaving eachother, the both of us cry and think about what life would be without one another.
ask him, what he would think if he didnt have you by his side..
if he says something like, i wouldnt like it or ill miss u terribly
then tell him, that he doesnt need to wrry
because you'll never leave him..then everything will be solved.
good luck i hope ive helped.
2007-11-23 1:19 am
some time this kind of asking is realy painfull, but if we are realy loving we do in there better intrest what they ask, but wathing them from away.....
2007-11-22 7:29 pm
hmmm...For one thing time is a healer.
Maybe talk to him in a caring YET simple way that its alright what happened and u dont wanna talk about it. What is left is u and him and the fact that you like each other and then just give it a rest. Just casual fun converstaion untill one of u guys plans to make a romantic move and do if the other senses that they can also go ahead. But is this relationship ligit? anyway ..casual ful and light conversations are one way to go on.... and heal old emos.

Maybe the guy is making excuses? Not sure. That will also become clear God willling if u wait and take a chill pill.

EDIT: Girl do not I repeat do not EVEN think bout suicide..After a year U WILL BE LAUGHING at ur thoughts! Trust me.
2007-11-22 7:22 am
you are not in love
you have no idea what love is
what are you going to hang yourself like that girl on myspace did over a fictional guy?
do you think she loved this fictional guy?
she did not.
as first you must love yourself, and as such you set personal limits of what is and what is not acceptable..
to love deeply as you suggest means you are smitten
and smitten is not love, but being blindsided
you are emotional
and that too is wrong
as you lack sound judgment,
and will excuse bad behavior because you "love" him and "no one understands us" type of speech is all nothing but raw uncontrolled emotion
young girls ( i doubt you are a women ) have no logic skills what so ever and so are easily manipulated and are easily smitten with their dream guy, and online predators know this
2007-11-22 7:18 am
I'm only wondering... he's only making up an excuse to get rid of you. Since you love him so much he feel bad to break up with you and the only thing he can said is he's not good enough for you to make you feel better. Anyway honestly, you're too good for him wake up and find someone better. You deserve a better one.

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