Met a guy on a dating site?

2007-11-14 6:28 pm
Who after nearly 3 months of contact told me he's been celibate for over a year and wants to remain that way indefinitely...just the other day he told me he no longer wants a relationship with anyone. He ok "friend" material, but I'm not sure I can trust someone who is so confused. He really came after me in the beginning. Now I don't know who he is. We've been on one date and spent one day to just hang as friends recently.

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2007-11-14 6:31 pm
✔ 最佳答案
Sounds like maybe he's okay with relationships, but just don't want a (romantic) one with you...and that's fine. Would be better if he just said that outright though, instead of laying on the 'just friends, doesn't want a relationship' line. Why was he on a dating site, if he doesn't want to date?
2007-11-14 6:32 pm
Don't take it so seriously. You will be ended crushed.
2007-11-14 7:27 pm
So..........be friends and....................keep looking!!!!
2007-11-14 6:42 pm
well i hate to say this, but maybe he is not so into you now that knows how you really are in person. Several times thats what happens..but then again, if he is so confused, then why bother to talk to him? maybe you deserves someone who know what he wants in life and relationships
2007-11-14 6:40 pm
ummmm... what can I say. I have been on dating sites, and I have pretty much removed myself from all of them because I was abused and want to pretty be the same as him celibate for life. I like to cuddle and kiss but I don't want to have that sort of relationship anymore. Just because someone is on a dating site doesn't mean that they want to have Sex...... where does that relationship come into play... dating = sex

You don't know how he is?? what do you mean by that? you met him, so you should know his first name at least. and if you have been talking for 3 months you should know some what of his personality. So I don't get it.....
2007-11-14 6:35 pm
So don't talk to him as much. At least you know where he stands. He's not looking for any relationship. That was pretty honest of him.
2007-11-14 6:35 pm
Always take photos of people you meet over the internet.
2007-11-14 6:33 pm
be careful
2007-11-14 6:32 pm
i think you can be friends with this guy. if you have things in common why not hang out and enjoy it. he definitely is not trying to get into your pants as you well know now!
2007-11-14 6:31 pm
Always good to have friends.
Be very careful. there are guys like me out there.

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