Are people who are beautiful, popular, and financially secure have more self-esteem than others? Why/why not?

2007-11-09 7:18 pm

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2007-11-09 7:20 pm
✔ 最佳答案
Usually. Not always, but usually. It's easier to have more "good" self-esteem when others gravitate towards you than it is when you're ugly, unpopular and poor.

Think about it.
2007-11-10 3:24 am
I could list of a ton of star who obviously have self esteem problems. So no I don't think so. Self-esteem doesn't come from other people liking you, it comes from you liking you...
2007-11-10 4:10 am
Most likely. Because they're in a position of power relative to people on the opposite end of the scale, if not consciously then subconciously. This makes them think higher of themselves; thus, greater self-esteem.
2007-11-10 3:38 am
Not necessarily. Neither beauty nor money guarantee happiness or great self-esteem. Look at some of the famous stars of our time who are constantly in emotional turmoil and lead such chaotic lives. And with their money comes greater temptation and often more life-style disasters, such as drug or alcohol addiction.

Often, the "Beautiful People" feel that they are in a race against an aging process which robs them of their physical beauty, and they try extreme medical treatments to hang on to their youthful appearance. They seem insecure, rather than high in self-esteem. They are very aware of what new "competition" might be coming, and fear that they may lose their edge.

But it depends on the stability and security of the individual person, probably developed in their childhood. Some popular, beautiful stars have "aged gracefully" and continue to radiate an "inner beauty" which stands the test of time.
2007-11-10 3:49 am
Definately, no. It really depends on what a person's value is.
Check out this great book by Nathaniel Brandon called The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem. After you read this book, you will know what the answer is.
2007-11-10 3:28 am
I say no...I know of a family that the woman is somewhat friendly but she uses people by talking to them for a while then not ever speaking to them again....She dont know what she wants or where she wants to live...She makes fun of people with a handicapp...Her husband is an alcoholic...Kids dont pitch in and help, they just look at her when she asks for help and walks away...She is beautiful in appearance, popular? ...Financially secure...Her life sucks in my opinion
2007-11-10 3:27 am
I would have to say no, but it depends on the person. Sometimes people can have everything, but still feel like something is missing.
2007-11-10 3:22 am
In some ways yes. Think of it this way--if people are constantly telling you how good looking you are (etc.) then you are bound to believe it right?! On the other hand, you might worry that you'll lose it all and become a nervous wreck.
2007-11-10 3:22 am
not all the time. ppl like that always have to watch their backs and be self concious. they jsut fake the confidence a lot of the time.
but some ppl are jerks and stuck up, yes.
2007-11-10 3:22 am
I think it's the other way around. People who have high self-esteem will be beautiful, and everything else they want.

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!!!!


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