Can I save my relationship w/ my 15 yo girl?
A year ago she messed up. She's was good girl, but, joined bad crowds, did some wrong stuff, got disrespectful. She apologized but got punished anyway, I got very disappointed and it took me some time to trust her again. Much more than the punishment, this hurt her really bad, made her suffer a lot, to an extent I couldn't realize then. She got so depresed and resentful that I sent her to therapy. She got better but her resentment didn't change, she could never get over it. We had a wonderful relationship and it was destroyed. She says I didn't act as a mom, I couldn't understand she is human and may make mistakes like anyone else I was cruel. She's a great girl, never messed up again, I'm proud of her but don't have her love. She has a teacher she likes much more than me, she gave her trust when the girl needed it most. I miss so much our relationship, but it seems it's gone forever. She's respectful, but her resentment keeps getting stronger. She says my presence is painful to her
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It takes time to build up a relationship and trust, be a little more patient. Listen to her and do not jump up to judgement or criticism. One thing I always remembered what my boss told me, never play your role to punished her but tell her you would like to help her and make her life better. Set a time every night and talk to her even for 5 minutes, i'm sure it'll be discouraging in the beinging but eventually I'm sure she'll trust you and talk to you. Don't give up.
What did you do to her that was so bad?
Why don't you go have a talk with that teacher, and see if she can give you any insight.
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