男友祖母過身. 女友可以做什麼?!

2007-10-19 11:27 pm
我究竟可以做什麼?? 去葬禮幫手 or 陪伴? or 說一些安慰說話然後等他靜下, 因為不能做什麼可以幫助他?
他已是30多歲的男人
我還未見過他祖母

回答 (4)

2007-10-19 11:35 pm
✔ 最佳答案
未見過就唔好去啦.
人地家庭辦理後事, 你去到最多咪菊個恭同放底 $101 蚊就好走啦.
男朋友咋 , 唔係老公.
你未係佢家族一份子架.
2007-10-20 10:53 pm
您個男朋友都三十歲人了
咁睇下您同您個男朋友係唔係好恩愛
如果係岩岩識
您就唔係好須要既
但係如果您就好想同佢一齊
就可以趁機去囉
但係
最重要都係講個心既
2007-10-20 12:01 am
It is all depends how long have you been together and your relationship with his family...

Have you met his family?
If you have met his family & pretty close then I guess it's good to show up in the funeral to show some respect. (of course, don't go to the funeral if he/his family dont want you to.) You can offer to 幫手 & ask what you can do. But if he/his family say no then don't insist because some people don't like it. They may think you are not part of the family and don't want your help. But if you don't even ask then they would have think you dont have any manner.

If you haven't even met his family then I think you better don't insist to help but again it is no harm to offer him and ask if there is anything you can do for him. It's not a good time to introduce the girlfriend to the family in such as situation. Just tell him you would like to show some support to him and his family but if he doesn't think that is appropriate then tell him you can understand and leave him alone. DON'T INSIST! Remember, he & his family is not going to have a party so you don't need to feel leave out if u r not part of it.

In summary, show concern and respect but don't do more than what he asks you to do.
2007-10-19 11:57 pm
基本上無什麼可幫到, 你可直接問你男朋友需否協助, 也許今次事件可增加你對男朋友的家庭成員的認識及關係, 當然, 指你地有將來的話,如果唔係, 最多做帛金及到場拜祭就ok啦.


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